~^~^ MELTERS! It's Hump Day! ~ ^~^

Hi, again,
Well, I started to post earlier, and my DDs called me to come get them at school. They are officially sophomores, and they survived their freshman year with a minimal amount of drama, no particularly bad choices, and mostly A’s. I guess I really couldn’t ask for more!

I did GS BSB and the planks and abs from S&H. I also actually got through most of the TV version of Rhythmic Step. Maybe there is hope! If I wanted to buy a step DVD or two, what would y’all recommend?

Tneah – WOW, I am so impressed with your resolve in getting rid of your scale!!! I can totally feel your frustration on the whole weight/body issue!!! I agree with everything you said. I have a new scale that purports to tell me my body fat %. It can’t possibly be right – it varies by so much every day. If I program it that I’m a man, it gives me a nice low % – I just don’t understand that. I wish I could get rid of mine – maybe you’ll inspire me. Speaking of you inspiring me, I cannot tell you how good it made me feel for you to call me an athlete. Growing up, I was always “smart” but “not athletic.” I didn’t really start working out in earnest until 1999 when I started a job at a place with a small fitness center. My fitness journey since then has been wonderful with some very cool accomplishments, but I still don’t think of myself as an athlete. I think I’m going to try to start thinking that way. Thank you!!!

Leanne – I’m sorry that tomorrow will be a hard day for you. I’ll be sending you warm thoughts and big {{{HUGS}}}! I’ll try to find some pics of some of the jewelry I’ve made. I have so many beautiful beads, but I never seem to find/make the time to actually make the jewelry. I always feel a bit guilty – like I’m not doing something else that I should be doing. Fortunately, I do NOT feel that way about the time I spend working out because I know that makes me a much happier wife and mother! On the pushups in the challenge, it’s our plan to do 210 on Mon. & 210 on Tues. I’ll do mine on my knees, and I find that I can do them more easily if I do them faster than Cathe does. That’s the part of the challenge that I’m a real wimp on; DH won’t be doing his on his knees. :) We will spread them through the afternoon, though. Are you a teacher? What subject? What level? That book you recommended sounds great! My girls were in early elementary grades when Britney Spears was REALLY popular with young girls and skanky outfits were all the rage for little girls. :-(

Lainie – I hope you’re resting and that your teeth are feeling better!

Jennifer – Hi!

Shelley & Kara – Enjoy your sweet daughters while they are still “little girls” because that is about to end. The years from 10-13 are such a time of growth and figuring out who they are; there are moments when they want to be so grown up and independent, and then moments when they want to be held and taken care of like little girls. There are lots of inexplicable tears during this time, too. I could probably give you lots of advice you don’t want, but I’ll save it for another time. I’ll just tell you this one thing that has really helped me over the past few years: Before you go out in public with your daughter, ask her how you look. Be prepared for whatever she says, and, if necessary, change whatever it is that bothers her. This will prevent some of the inevitable “embarrassment” you are going to cause her, and I’ve found that if I ask for feedback, they give it in a nicer way than if they tell me later what was wrong with my outfit/hair/what I said, etc.

Shelley – Did you go to RT last year? If so, are you in anyone’s pictures that are linked to Cathe’s website?

Kara – It sounds like you need some rest days, too. I hope you’re taking it easy today. Are you redoing your kitchen? Are you doing it yourself? I agree with you that Cathe seems more relaxed in S&H. Thank you for taking the time to read our website. Yes, the experiences surrounding my DH’s cardiac arrest were terrifying; it all seems very surreal in retrospect. But I’ve learned so much, and I know it has made all of us better, more compassionate, more authentic people, and, for that, I am extraordinarily grateful.
 
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Kristi - thank you SO much for the gems of advice! I'm sure they're going to come in handy. We're already experiencing the inexplicable tears and the sudden moments of drama!

I wasn't on last year's RT but I was on the 2005 one. Let me see if I can find a more recent pic of myself. I'm really not white and fluffy, though I sometimes have that exact look of disgust on my face ;)
 
Well hello beautiful!:7 Shelley, you are stunning! Okay you are at a wedding, no? And who is your SO? Inquiring minds want to know...wish I had your eyes, sooo pretty! You must have fun with makeup.Hows the cramps? You look like you have a nice sized chest girl, you are not flat at all.

Ok, I just cleaned and organized DH's office space and closet.:eek: Good lord, whatta mess it was...not anymore! Two large trash bags of clutter-gone! Boy, I am in a mood and on a roll today let me tell ya. Next thing is our entertainment room, or family room. Those closets are cluttered too. Books scattered everywhere. I had salmon and asparagus for lunch today, very satisfying.

Kristi, you ARE an athlete! Are you kidding me?:p I could never do those things you and DH are. I am so impressed! I love your teen advice, that is so cute you ask your kids if you look ok before going anywhere, you are a very, very wise woman indeed.:)

Whats everyone else up to today?
 
DANG, Shelly, you look GORGEOUS in that photo! Truly, truly, TRULY!! Was it taken at a recent wedding? Who are those other two dashing men? Is one of them Chris? Glad that the cramps are better and that you're feeling better. :) And YES, Power Hour is that one with squats . . . and squats . . . and squats . . . and more squats! Is Sophie almost done with school? Do you have any plans for her (camp, etc.) while she's on summer break?

Tneah -- Hooray for tossing out the scales! You are one brave woman! I keep telling myself that I'm going to toss mine out, but I'm compulsive about my Friday morning weigh-ins, and think that I couldn't give them up. I'm so proud of you!! And you are *not* self-centered, so don't even go there! You are such a generous, kind, and compassionate person, and you're always thinking of everyone else!

Kristi -- Thanks for your kind words and hugs! I really appreciate it. Yes, part of the fun of beading is just collecting beads, isn't it?! It's just fun to pick up some new ones and think of the possibilities. Ah, and you shouldn't feel guilty about beading and doing hobbies; those will also make you a happier person, too! What an interesting background you have in law. Being a trial lawyer must have been so interesting, although I can imagine that it was a lot of work. I'm actually an English professor at a community college in San Diego, and my DH is a math and computer science high school teacher. We both love teaching, but it can be stressful, as many jobs are. He has final exams next week, and then he'll be off on summer break, too. I finished up the semester about a week-and-a-half ago, but then had jury duty last week. (Something you have a lot of experience observing!:)) Hooray for your daughters doing so well this year and being officially sophomores! I remember that that was such a difficult age. If you want to try more step workouts, I'd recommend Low Max; Cathe really breaks down the routines a lot more than she does in some of her other step workouts, and so it's a bit easier to follow -- and yet it's also really intense!}(

Shannon -- That rotation looks good, but I'm trying to think of what you could substitute for some of that step and cardio. Does the elliptical bother your calf as much as the step and low-impact stuff does? If not, maybe you could just do more of that this week. I'm sure the more knowledgeable folks will chime in!:) I ended up not playing with the KBs today, but probably will on Friday!:)



So my Costco also doesn't carry the comfy pants.:-( I bought some lovely roses for my mom, though, and took those to the cemetery. It's this really drizzly, gray day here. Odd weather for June!

Hope all our other Melters are doing well! Lainie, hope your mouth is feeling better, and, Kara, hope your ankle isn't still painful!:)
 
Tneah -- How awesome that you got so much cleaning and organizing done today!! Want to come help me with my house?;-)

Kristi -- I completely agree with Tneah -- you're definitely an athlete!
 
*blushes* Why thank you all. Yes, I'm at a wedding. Those are two of my best friends in the world. The one on the left is the one who got married. The one on the right won't ever get married because he's completely in love with... me ;-) We had a thing once and I guess he's just never got over me. So there's your bit of gossip for the night! And Tneah, I'm an A cup, so it must be the bra or the angle or something:p

Tneah - Oooooh, I'm so jealous that you got to clean and organize and throw things out today!!! You're definitely in purge mode.

Kristi - I also agree that you're an athlete! You know, my biggest regret is that I didn't go to school to become a lawyer. I would have liked to work on sexual assault cases. Your girls do sound lovely.:) Sophie, my DD, already likes to give me fashion advice and she's pretty darn good at it!

Okay, I did Drillmax and LIC abs tonight. Wow. I'm fried! And the stupid cramps are back x(
 
OOh scandalous Shelley, you have an unrequited love....ah,the poor guy.He is very cute BTW. Well, at least you know you have a "back up" if Chris ever gets outta line.;) Kidding...I think?:7

How you did Drillmax and then abs with Auntie in town is beyond my comprehension...you too my friend are an athlete!

I did Plyo stuff tonight to work out the lactic acid--not sure if this will help, but my legs are seriously swollen, its kinda weird actually, I am hoping its the hard workout and not some weird side effect from my new thyroid medication...wouldn't that be lovely?:*

I'm off to watch some Top Chef and read tonight...talk to you guys tomorrow.
 
Tneah -- sounds like you are on a clutter busting roll -- can you come do my DDs' rooms???? I'm not sure 2 large trash bags will begin to make a dent in all their junk! I'm watching Top Chef right now!

Leanne -- You are soooo right about doing hobbies. I'll try to make more time for beading this summer. Being a trial lawyer was very interesting,challenging, and rewarding; it was just hard for us to both try to succeed and advance in the same profession with the kids. I really admire those women who can juggle it all better than I could. I'm sorry you had jury duty, but I'm glad you did it -- the country needs more bright people on juries. My DH could tell you stories of some real interesting jurors. Many of my family members and my DH's family members are in education. Thanks for the Low Max tip -- I taped it off of FitTV, too, so I can test drive it soon.;-)

Shelley -- The one in love with . . . you is cute! He looks a little like a cross between Tony Blair and Kevin Costner. :7 What do you do? You know it's never too late to go to law school or do anything you want! At least I hope that's true since I'll be doing something new or trying to re-start my career when my girls graduate. (YIKES!!!!) You are lucky that Sophie has good fashion sense. So do mine -- one wants to study fashion merchandising in college. I"m sorry your cramps are back -- hope they are better tomorrow -- but good for you on your workout!

When my DH got home, I had the brilliant idea of doing our swim tonight instead of at 5:30 in the morning, so we did! It was much better than the one yesterday morning, although I was little pooped from my earlier workouts. I'm glad to have it over with. The swimming is, by far, my least favorite part of this!

Thank y'all for the athlete comments -- they really mean a lot. I'm going to try really hard to play that tape in my head as we finish up this training!

I hope you all have a nice evening and that everyone feels better in the morning!
 
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