HI Everyone,
I don't post much but I need to talk to someone about this.
I have been married for almost 4 yrs. To a great guy I might add.Currently he as been unemployed and at home alot. He is trying to find work but nothing as came up yet. I know it is normal to "sometimes" feel like you are not as in love as you use to be but then a day or two later, you feel like you are more in love then ever. I very rarely get like this but I am going through something lately where I don't feel as close to him. We have (had) a great relationship, lots of trust and love and Im not sure where it went. Its like a switch flicked on and overnight I immediately changed. I could care less for sex or to do anything together.I would much rather just be by myself. I have been feeling like this for about 3 weeks now. I am afraid to say anything b/c I don't want to hurt him and it may be nothing. I would rather not say anything b/c chances are this will soon pass (maybe when he finds work).And spending time with him won't help b/c on my days off, thats all I do.
He is a great guy and I admit it is totally my fault. We are only young 26 and 30.
I think may be I am stressed with the fact that he hasn't found any work PLUS with his last job he was gone ALL the time and I very rarely saw him in the day time. I would have to fight with him to get him to stay home but now he is under my feet ALL the time. And I mean all the time. Hes not going anywhere or doing anything.
Any advice?
I don't post much but I need to talk to someone about this.
I have been married for almost 4 yrs. To a great guy I might add.Currently he as been unemployed and at home alot. He is trying to find work but nothing as came up yet. I know it is normal to "sometimes" feel like you are not as in love as you use to be but then a day or two later, you feel like you are more in love then ever. I very rarely get like this but I am going through something lately where I don't feel as close to him. We have (had) a great relationship, lots of trust and love and Im not sure where it went. Its like a switch flicked on and overnight I immediately changed. I could care less for sex or to do anything together.I would much rather just be by myself. I have been feeling like this for about 3 weeks now. I am afraid to say anything b/c I don't want to hurt him and it may be nothing. I would rather not say anything b/c chances are this will soon pass (maybe when he finds work).And spending time with him won't help b/c on my days off, thats all I do.
He is a great guy and I admit it is totally my fault. We are only young 26 and 30.
I think may be I am stressed with the fact that he hasn't found any work PLUS with his last job he was gone ALL the time and I very rarely saw him in the day time. I would have to fight with him to get him to stay home but now he is under my feet ALL the time. And I mean all the time. Hes not going anywhere or doing anything.
Any advice?