As the mother of a 10 year old son diagnosed with Major Depression, I thank God for Lexapro and my son's doctor and his thearpist. I forgot who said it is hell, but you are right, it is.. My poor baby was so unhappy and sad and had so much anxiety without having a real reason too, the things i would think of are embarrassing, but so real. There were nights when he would cry he wished he were dead, he is 10, no 10 year old or anyone should feel like that. My husband and i would would cringe at the thought of taking him anywhere, and each day we would get up and wonder what kind of day we would have with him, he would hit and kick, and punch holes in walls, he didn't know how to deal with it, and he would do this in public too. i am not saying popping a pill is THE answer, but we use it as a tool in dealing with his illness, and it is a illness, just like diabetes, a lack of a chemical and or too much of a chemical. I think the hardest thing to deal with is the way some people look at him when he is having a bad day, if he was born with a physical disability something that people could see it would be obvious, but his and anyone else who suffers from this or any other mental illness it is not so obvious. Since starting Lexapro he is happier, he calls his friends, plays hockey, had his first sleepover, and deals with life, and lets face it life isn't always easy, but he deals with things better and he hasn't broken anything in months!! he goes to therapy once a month, I wouldn't go back in a heart beat, i look at him now with hope for him, that he can be the best kid that he can be, and when life throws him lemons he will make me a margareti, or mabey some lemonaide. But there are situationl depressions also, and sometimes those times, like in the aftermath of 911 and postpartum depression, death of a loved one, that medicine along with therapy are needed for short times. I just hate seeing people ashamed of something that they cannot control. Jake has learned to be open about it and he is hoping to write a kids book to help other kids learn about it and how it is ok.