I am so excited !

As you girls have also noticed, because it is so confusing to go by what charts say, this is why I just go by what is best for my bone structure. There is no way that the 3 sizes fits all in those charts can take into consideration all the different builds people have.

I'm 5'3 and weight has fluctuated from 100-128. I'm an ecto like Angela. I have very long thin arms. At that high weight, which the charts say is in my range, I look like a blimp and have had many people say so. Well...not say the word 'blimp', but comments like, "my, you have sure put on some weight." DH will say, 'what do you intend to do to get to get back where you are supposed to be?' or 'have you seen how big you are getting lately?"
I'm best at 105 which I now am. But the charts would scream that I'm too thin.
Yes, like Angela said, these unsolicited observations are rude, no matter from what source they come from.
But my point is, what weight someone is carrying well and looks good, isn't necessarily the weight someone else can carry well even though they may be the same height.

Like your observations above, someone at one weight and height wears a 9-10 for example and another at the same weight and height wears a 2-3. Bone structure and difference in the muscle mass is part of the reason for the difference.
I guess that is another reason why it is not wise to compare oneself with another. To achieve the looks of another person may be next to impossible, if not dangerous to our health.
Each of us are unique in our own right. Each of us are beautiful in our our right. Charts are a ballpark not a rule.

And.. again...Rhonda my hat is off to you for achieving your goal. The committment to yourself in a exercise program is worthy of an award in itself. Achieving a goal makes the committment even more motivating.
Hip Hip Hip Hurray! as Cathe says in Cardio Kicks which I'd better get busy and do. }( :p
 
You are all so right on this subject and it is so interesting. As I mentioned above, I'm only 5', weight around 123, and in most jeans I wear a size 4-6. In my Cruel Girl jeans I wear a junior size 5 relaxed fit as I'm a pear with big butt and thighs. It is hard for me to imagine that someone who is taller than myself and weighs less would wear the same size as I do or even bigger as, through my eyes, they look smaller. I'm definitely pear shaped and I think some people think I'm bigger than I really am, or maybe that is just my thoughts about myself. The best I have ever looked and was very happy was when I weighed 115 pounds and wore a regular junior size 5. The strange thing is when I wear a junior size 5, not relaxed fit, I cannot find any misses clothes to fit me. Even a size 2 swallows me through the hips. It's all very confusing for me.
 
Rhonda,

Congratulations on your weight and breaking your plateau!

Just to let you know - I do not feel 109 is too low of a weight for you - since you are 5' 2" - I consider that a healthy weight.

I have a girlfiend who always tells me and anyone who will listen that I am too thin - well, I am 5' 5 1/2" tall and when I went to the doctor I weighed in at 113.8 pounds. I asked his opinion - if he thought my weight was too low and his reply was - he takes the standard of if you are 5" tall 100lbs is a good weight and you can add 5# per inch. Then he adds and subtracts 12#'s for the leeway.

In other words he said a weight anywhere from 113 to 137 would be good for me. He did say I was on the low end of the scale - Then he said "Would I recommend that you should gain weight?" He said he would not. He is an internist who I have been seeing for 14 years.

He told me that whatever I was doing was working and to keep it up. So, for you that would be anywhere between 98# and 122# would be good.

My dad died at age 34 from heart disease, my brother died at age 52 from congestive heart failure (he had 2 bypasses). My mother also died of congestive heart disease. So, he knows my history - he says I need to exercise and watch my weight just for the heart aspect.

So, keep up the good work, it has paid off - donn't worry about what anyone else has to say as long as you feel good that's all that matters.

Cheryl
 
Thanks again SSSOOOOO much for all of your support, it means alot coming from all of you :7 ... you guys are wonderful. A big God bless you to all, Rhonda :7 :7 ...... it feels so good to be getting into great shape :7 .
 
Hi Rhonda! As a fellow shortie I just had to chime in here. I fought that darn 111 mark for nearly 6 months! Isn't is sooooo great to get past that?? The day I went to the hospital for my hysterectomy, I jumped on the scale and I weighed 110!! I was terrified that the # would just go up and up with no Cathe for 6 weeks. But I think that my wonderfully fit "Cathe" body just remembers where it should be scale wise, cause all I have been doing is eating right and briskly walking 4 times a week and the scale has not moved. But I tell ya I can not wait to get my little hands around some dumbells! Take care and here is a big high five for getting to your goal!! Donna.
 

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