Hi Mrsprincess07! You can get your abs back after your first baby rather quickly compared to the babies that follow....but as long as you eat clean and workout hard, they will still come back. They might not have the exact same shape (the waist sometimes gets a bit wider) and the skin around your abs may change (may have some loose skin and stretch marks) but you can still get back to your prior level of fitness, see a six pack if you had one prior to baby, and even get quite lean again, again, as long as you focus on eating well, exercising consistently, and somewhat intensly.
Keep in mind that every situation is unique and you have to keep a realistic outlook on what you have and don't have control over.
Some people are genetically more prone to stretch marks and you can't really change that but if you aim to gain only the healthy amount that you should your abs will not stretch out as far (unless of course you are having twins or triplets).
Some women come back to even better shape then before they had kids because they are so determined to get that baby weight off that they train harder then they ever did before.
Regardless of your situation, everyone can eat well, train hard, and make a huge difference in their post baby appearance if they are willing to work at it.
Good Luck starting your family....how special!
