Wishing you a happy birthday, waterlily! I hope you're able to celebrate you in a special way today, if only for a little way. Once the hurricane clean-up is over and your life settles down a bit, maybe you can celebrate "proper" with your sister- and celebrate your anniversary. You can treat yourselves extra specail for surviving all this. I lost nearly everything I owned, including my car, to Hurricane Georges a few years ago. I empathsize with you, and send you lots of positive vibes.