Gaining weight instead of losing!

tknelsen

Cathlete
ARGGHH!! I am so frustrated! I have been trying to lose my last 5 lbs. of pregnancy weight (plus an additional 5lb.) by following a CTX/PS rotation (I am at the end of week 4). Instead of losing weight I have gained two pounds this week. I realize that part of this may be muscle gain, but I just don't understand how working out and really watching what I eat and still breastfeeding my baby does not add up to weight loss.
I know others have posted that they have gained weight instead of losing if they work out too much or too hard, but can someone please explain to me how this works? Does your body just go completely haywire?
Another undesired aspect of this is while I have been watching what I eat and pretty much cutting out all junk, I am SO HUNGRY! I think I'm eating enough calories (between 2000-2400) but I just want to eat more and more.

I need someone to explain this because I am frustrated and confused.
 
I was the same exact way. Working out like crazy for months, and not losing a pound. I did the CTX series and that helped me lose around 10 pounds. But then I hit a plateau and just couldn't lose anymore. I just joined Weight Watchers Online and I've lost 2 pounds in the first week. I can't believe it's finally coming off. I think it's because of the journalizing every last thing that goes into my mouth. It really works!

Danielle :7
 
I don't think I can answer all of your questions, but I do know that if you are still breastfeeding you NEED extra calories in order for your body to keep producing milk. I also was told after my first child that the last 5-10 lbs would be near impossible to lose until after I stopped breast feeding. If I were you, I'd feel proud to be working out the way you are with a small baby and all of life's other responsibilities. Your body will need more fuel the more you workout/gain muscle/breastfeed. Get lots of rest too, and be kind to yourself. I know this probably isn't what you're looking for, but I just wanted to offer encouragement. Chin up - you will get there :)

Beth
 
I also wanted to add, that eating more protein keeps you fuller longer. It takes longer to digest protein, than it does carbs. So if you're eating a meal with all carbs, try adding more protein to it. This might help keep you satisfied and not so hungry.

Danielle

:7
 
I was in your situation not long ago. Desiring the same outcome and doing the same regime as you. I was afraid to eat any more calories, but in reality that was sabotaging(sp?) my goal. Because I was breastfeeding and limiting caloric intake, my body was in famine mode(automatically slowing my metabolic rate) in order to maintain milk supply. After I stopped breastfeeding, the weight came off and I was thinner than ever before. However, it did take my body several months to realize I had stopped breastfeeding and finally drop the weight. That length of time was disappointing and of course I wondered what I was doing wrong. In hindsight I was doing nothing wrong - just my body needed to be assured it was no longer needing to be in famine mode.
Keep working out, plus get more rest and eat 400-500 more calories a day(don't be afraid of this as I was - it can really help you). Something I *was* doing wrong was too much cardio, not enough weight training.
I hope this helps some
 
I'd like to add one more thing to eveything everybody is saying.
Your body is under alot of stress right now. Breastfeeding, recovering from being pregnant, working out, ect....
When your body has too much stress it produces crotisol(sp?). We always produce it, but when in excess, it can cause you to retain water. I believe, maybe I'm wrong, that it stimulates insuln. Our fat storing hormone. Do what the other have said. Rest, up your calories a notch, and keep working out. It'll come off slow and sure!!
You all inspire me!! When I was breastfeeding I had NO energy!! To hear what you all have done is AMAZING!! Keep it up!! I'm in awe:) .

Aimee
 
This can be frustrating, but can also be explained.

If you aren't eating enough or often enough to avoid glycogen depletion, you will compromise lean muscle mass. If you do too much in the way of cardio training, you can become glycogen depleted, again compromising lean muscle mass.

The loss of muscle, over time, leads to a slowing of metabolic rate, which, in turn, leads to increases in storage fat while maintaining the same workout schedule and caloric intake.

Being extremely hungry may mean you aren't eating enough or often enough or that you are eating too many simple carbs by themselves. All three states ultimately lead to low blood sugar, which causes very strong cravings, especially for the foods which will elevate blood sugar the most rapidly--simple carbs. It can get to be a vicious cycle.

To avoid this, eat enough, eat often enough and consume enough protein, fiber and/or healthy fats along with simple carbs. This will keep blood sugar stable.

Also be sure you are devoting plenty of time to strength training and not shorting the weights in favor of excessive cardio.

Please e-mail me if I can answer any questions.
Maribeth
 
tknelson - I don't think Maribeth could have said this any better! I have done a ton of research lately and am following exactly what Maribeth recommends to you and it is working! I was in the same exact boat as you for a couple months after the Intensity series came out. I was working out hours a day... so hungry, doing too much cardio, and simply over training. It is such a viscious cycle.

I just started BFL 3 weeks ago and have seen amazing results so quickly. I am already down to a size 6/8 and was at a size 8/10 when I started:) Plus, I am working out 1/2 the time, focusing more on wt training and REALLY focusing on my food intake. I have cut down on simple carbs, eating lower fat, higher protein and it is working! You may want to give BFL a try. It sure helped me in putting a plan together and sticking to it! However, be careful because you need to make sure you are getting enough calories for your baby.

Good luck!
 
Thank you so much for your informative response. I definitely have been noticing a craving for carbs (I'm grabbing my kids goldfish crackers and vanilla wafers!) I have been trying to eat smaller, more frequent meals in the hopes that will kill my constant hunger.

I love this forum! It's so great to be able to tap into such a wealth of knowledge and experience. Thanks to everyone who responded.
 
Hi All. I was so glad to read this post with all its replys because I too have been gainning weight and working out like crazy. What MariBeth posted about glycogen stores seems to hold true for me. The more cardio I do, the more weight I gain, and its not "good" weight. My clothes fit tighted and my stomach bloats. In my mind, the more cardio I do, the thinnner I will be, but it seems to back fire every time (I have had this happen before, but I have never let it get out of control like this time...I have gainned almost 10lbs. in 3 months). When it does happen, I cut back my cardio and I drop the weight. I was determined this time to fight it and thought I just need to work past this little set back and I will start dropping. Like sometimes when you start to lift weights, you will bloat before you start to see definition. Well, it really back fired this time. I stuck with it, only to gain more weight. I started just this week cutting back my cardio to only 30 minutes and focusing on weights and toning. I'll let you know how it goes.

The Catheier who had the original post (I'm sorry, I can't remember your name), I have also read about holding onto those last 10 lbs. when nursing. It is your bodies way of making sure that there is ample body fat to produce milk, since the body needs fat to do so. After you quit nursing, this should come off. I don't know about you, but my boobs are a substanial size when I nurse and I always said they were probably about 5 of my 10 extra pounds. Not sure if that is true (I doubt it), but my husband sure liked the "extra" 5 pounds.

Kim
 
Hi. I'll tell you, if you are watching what you eat and trying to lose weight while breastfeeding, be sure that you have a calorie quality plan from your doctor. You need more calories during breastfeeding, at least 500 more a day. You're body may be trying to store fat because you aren't eating enough. However, if you are eating just right, and it is only muscle, then stop worrying about your weight on the scale and check out how your clothes are fitting.

A lot of times, when you create new muscle your clothing fits differently, maybe even tighter, giving you the false impression that you are gaining fat or that you are getting bigger, when actually, your body is just toning up. You're pants may be more snug because your muscles are a bit more perky, but the fat layer hasn't gone away, which of course makes you appear bigger. Don't worry. Give it the proper amount of tiem. This being 3 months. It takes litterally 3 months for the average person to burn off fat and tone muscles to perfection. The average person being 10-20 lbs over weight.

Now you, are not the average person, you are breastfeeding, and your body is recovering from pregnancy, therefore it may take longer. I know the story of "you burn more calories while breastfeeding" this only means that you need more calories to sustain your breastmilk supply. Many woman are falsly under the impression that they will lose weight faster by breasfeeding. This is only true for some fortunate woman, not all. Usually, when a woman stops breastfeeding the weight just melts off within a month, at least most woman I know. This doesn't mean to stop breastfeeding, I encourage you to keep it up. Your baby is what's most important right now, not your size or your weight.

Also, your milk supply adds weight to you. Keep that in mind. I wouldn't work on a serious weight loss plan until you have stopped breastfeeding. A woman's body is very sensitive during this time, you could overwork your system and cause hormonal imbalances which cause numorous difficulties, just to name a few...headaches, migrains, dizzyness, susceptiblility to bacterial infections, yeast infections, blah, blah, you get the point.

Once you have stopped breastfeeding, allow yourself a month to thoroughly recover, and let your hormones adjust again. Then you can push yourself with workouts and you will see a difference that's desired. Until then, try to focus on your baby, not your body. you can still steer clear of sugar saturated carbs, and exercising is still fine, just don't expect a desired change until your body has recovered from breastfeeding.

OH yeah, and your hunger......try eating smaller meals more often rather than 3 big meals a day, perhaps you are having some fluctuations in your harmones because of the adjustments you're trying to make with your eating. It's amazing what hormones do. Here's a tip. When you take your daily vitamin, take it with your meal, because vitamins often cause cravings and if taken alone, can cause you to feel hungry. Secondly, drink more water, or any caffien free, calorie free liquids as often as possible. Surprisingly, your body doesn't know the difference between any liquid and water, so you don't have to drowned yourself with plain water, any liquid will work, and help you feel more full throughout the day. Good luck and take your time. You'll get there inevitably if you don't give up.;-)
 

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