futurefitnessdyanmo
Cathlete
This is a really tough situation, for you and your friend. It seems that she may not be ready to hear advice from you, and you're very perceptive to pick up on that. I think you should advise her to seek counseling on her own - it would first of all put her in contact with someone who is trained to deal with complicated things like this and you'd feel better knowing she's getting help from somewhere. Also, a counselor is likely to say just what you have, but it will be very different for her to hear it from a counselor she's never met but who she'll perceive as the "expert".
From my experience with conducting marital therapy with couples, I'm feeling very bad for your friend and her perception of things. Everything about his behavior and attitude suggest that he has no investment in the marriage or concern about her feelings. I don't know what he does, but the fact that she's a lawyer makes me wonder about his ulterior financial motives (that's mean, but I feel angry at this guy). Also, maybe he feels inferior to her...
Good luck
From my experience with conducting marital therapy with couples, I'm feeling very bad for your friend and her perception of things. Everything about his behavior and attitude suggest that he has no investment in the marriage or concern about her feelings. I don't know what he does, but the fact that she's a lawyer makes me wonder about his ulterior financial motives (that's mean, but I feel angry at this guy). Also, maybe he feels inferior to her...
Good luck