Ladies, I would appreciate informed opinions. When does one just throw in the towel and opt for foreclosure on a property that won't move?
Details: I have had my home on the market for 2 years in a town I no longer live in, a town which is an hour away from where my husband and I both work. This means I am maintaining two homes--this house and a condo that I rent. Three of the top real estate agents have shown the house. I have come down in price far below the appraised value and am willing to part with it for what I owe or less. I have even applied for a short sale with the bank but the only offer I've gotten on the house was 1/3 the value of the loan. The bank won't go for that. The auction company doesn't think it can get what we would need for a short sale since property values are dropping dramatically now. I have a newborn now and the house is draining us dry every month with upkeep and mortgage. We tried renters, but they thrashed the place, and the place is delicate--a miniature Victorian. The town is depressed so it's hard to find respectful renters. The market in that town is completely glutted and has been since Spring 2006. Moreover, most of what we pay every month is interest, property tax, and mortgage insurance. The principal budged only $1500 last year.
Anyways, sorry to bore everyone with those details, but I am ready to give up mostly because I can't continue to throw money down a rathole every month. Both my husband and I are professionals but we pinch pennies constantly and go without necessities like dental work for example. Is it worth it to trash my credit for seven years? I have heard that I could reapply for credit in two years (but the rates would be high) and that in seven, the foreclosure would be wiped from my record. Right now, I am thinking it is worth it because we can't live decently on our income when 1/3 of it goes to keep up a place we don't live in. Moreover, I have only taken out one loan in my life--this mortgage--so I don't live on credit and can probably do without for a few years.
Every month, I feel as if we are being slowly crucified. What would you do? Opinions please.
Manmohini
Details: I have had my home on the market for 2 years in a town I no longer live in, a town which is an hour away from where my husband and I both work. This means I am maintaining two homes--this house and a condo that I rent. Three of the top real estate agents have shown the house. I have come down in price far below the appraised value and am willing to part with it for what I owe or less. I have even applied for a short sale with the bank but the only offer I've gotten on the house was 1/3 the value of the loan. The bank won't go for that. The auction company doesn't think it can get what we would need for a short sale since property values are dropping dramatically now. I have a newborn now and the house is draining us dry every month with upkeep and mortgage. We tried renters, but they thrashed the place, and the place is delicate--a miniature Victorian. The town is depressed so it's hard to find respectful renters. The market in that town is completely glutted and has been since Spring 2006. Moreover, most of what we pay every month is interest, property tax, and mortgage insurance. The principal budged only $1500 last year.
Anyways, sorry to bore everyone with those details, but I am ready to give up mostly because I can't continue to throw money down a rathole every month. Both my husband and I are professionals but we pinch pennies constantly and go without necessities like dental work for example. Is it worth it to trash my credit for seven years? I have heard that I could reapply for credit in two years (but the rates would be high) and that in seven, the foreclosure would be wiped from my record. Right now, I am thinking it is worth it because we can't live decently on our income when 1/3 of it goes to keep up a place we don't live in. Moreover, I have only taken out one loan in my life--this mortgage--so I don't live on credit and can probably do without for a few years.
Every month, I feel as if we are being slowly crucified. What would you do? Opinions please.
Manmohini