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Jasmin416

Jasmin416

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So on Monday night my guy asked to see me on Wednesday. On Tuesday I sent an email asking if I should anticipate having dinner together (no response), then I called later that night after once again he said he'd call but didn't...never got a response back. I texted him Wednesday morning to see if we were "still on for tonight". I did not hear back until 4:30 in the afternoon where by email he cancelled our date and then asked to reschedule for Thursday.

I sent an email back saying that he's been blowing me off for 24 hours and I deserved a phone call to break our date. Then I said if you are not interested in dating anymore and do not want to go to this party with me on Saturday then just let me know...its no big deal.

I got an elaborate email back with if he didn't want to date me he wouldn't have asked to reschedule with me. Then he went into a "million" excuses why he didn't call me including watching American Idol...duh! And then said he was concerned about how I handle things and perhaps its best if we do stop dating.

I sent him an email back saying that his email was filled with a million excuses as to why he couldn't make a one minute phone call to me out of common courtesy and then cancel on me by email. You know what? I am happy with how I handled myself. He is clueless.
 
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I know that was not easy - but is sure seems like it was for the best. You deserve to be treated with more respect - and if he cant give it - best to just move on....

There is ALWAYS time to make the one minute phone call.... esp if he used American Idol as one of the reasons.... there is also this thing that call 'commercials'..... That is just BS!!! Also think about it - he knew you tried to contact him - so he sat there KNOWING he should contact you - and was too lame to do it....

You will find someone better... :)
 
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Good job :) Now Jasmin, you just have to pinky-swear that if he contacts you again (and these types usually do) you won't have a discussion with him, or go back into history, just say "I am not interested in seeing you anymore."

Because when the right guy comes along, you will not deal with any of this. The right kind of guy won't do any of this wishy-washy-namby-pamby stuff; he's going to recognize what a prize you are and not let you get away once he's found you.
 
I think you did the right thing Jasmin. You deserve someone who treats you like a princess & it seems you weren't getting that w/this guy.

You seem to be handling it well too. You're a strong lady & you'll be fine. And it's good you've re-opened yourself for the right one.
 
Blown off for American Idol? IS HE SERIOUS?!? Glad you dumped him.

I like the way he turns it around on you, saying he is concerned on how you handle things. It's his way of making it seem like it's your fault, and he's the one breaking it off. Leeeeeeeeeew-ZER!
 
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dss62467 said:
I like the way he turns it around on you, saying he is concerned on how you handle things. It's his way of making it seem like it's your fault, and he's the one breaking it off. Leeeeeeeeeew-ZER!
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OMG! Jasmin, when did you start dating my ex husband? :D
 
Can you believe I got another email from this guy and after I laid everything out on the line in a polite way I got a nasty email back. I am sooooo over this now. What a jerk!
 
now is the time you set your email tools to either SPAM him or put on an autoreply to anything he says. "Get over yourself. You've turned into a punch line" might work.
 
I think you sensed from your earlier posts that he wasn't "the one." I also think that he wants to control even the breakup---to make it seemed like HE dumped YOU. What ego.
 
Govtgirl said:
........you just have to pinky-swear that if he contacts you again (and these types usually do) you won't have a discussion with him, or go back into history, just say "I am not interested in seeing you anymore."
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Jasmin416 said:
Can you believe I got another email from this guy and after I laid everything out on the line in a polite way I got a nasty email back. I am sooooo over this now. What a jerk!
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Ha, I KNEW he'd contact you!! I knew it! :p As Bugs Bunny used to say:
"what a ma-roon!"
 
I sent a request weeks ago to friend this guy on myspace and I saw he friended me today. What's up with that?

I called him the other day just to clear the air since we work in the same industry and have events to go to where we will see each other and I never got a call back. Scratching my head on this one.
 
Jasmin416 said:
I sent a request weeks ago to friend this guy on myspace and I saw he friended me today. What's up with that?

I called him the other day just to clear the air since we work in the same industry and have events to go to where we will see each other and I never got a call back. Scratching my head on this one.
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Tina - my thinking is that he wants what he can't have... you've given him the heave-ho and now he wants you all the more. I say go out with the young guy who asked you out and get over this bozo.
 
dss62467 said:
now is the time you set your email tools to either SPAM him or put on an autoreply to anything he says. "Get over yourself. You've turned into a punch line" might work.
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Sorry to hijack your thread, but I must give kudos for this idea!

That is an awesome idea - I am adopting that!!! Thanks! lol!!!
 
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