What is it with women afraid of building muscle??? I just don't understand it? Is it really cause they think that by lifting 10lbs of weight they will look like a Woman bodybuilder??? I'm a man and i want muscle mass and do you know how hard i workout to get it, lifting weight that hurts like hell, and you wanna know something else??? I still ain't that big! Now if me, (ie - MAN - higher levels of testosterone), can't get big (without a nice big dose of GH) then it sure as hell ain't gonna happen to you. Weight training will give you the weight loss you desire without the added muscle mass (read - bulk), honestly, especially if you combine it with Cardio work, trust me, I'm a man!