pixiesis
Cathlete
So, DH and I have put an offer on a house and its been accepted. The bank appraised the house and it appraised for 10K more than the price we agreed on. In this market with all the foreclosures, this can mean that the bank wants us to put more $$ down (we have 5%, they may want 10%). This doesn't seem logical to me but whatever. Well, we can't really put 10% down, but we can put significantly more down if the seller agrees to pay closing costs. We should hear from the bank today about whether they need more of a down payment.
So here's where things get fishy. Yesterday we spoke to our buying agent about it. She was assuring us that we can still make it happen (well, of course she really wants it to happen). Then she threw out the idea that we'll just up the buying price and then the sellers will use that additional money towards the additional down payment we need. I asked whether we'd still finance the same amount with the bank and she replied that we'd finance MORE. This was her only suggestion. She did not suggest that the sellers pay closing costs, which benefits us and is ethical and normal.
WHY on earth would DH and I agree to this? This deal benefits our agent, the sellers, and the sellers agent, and it costs US more! We are close to walking away from the whole thing, and I'm thinking about reporting her and the sellers agent. I asked the mortgage guy at the bank what he thought of her suggestion. He said that it's actually not legal in the traditional loan that we're doing. I also told him that I found something unethical about her suggestion but that I wasn't sure I understood it correctly (I do, but I wanted his reaction). He said that I understood her suggestion just fine.
So, WTH should we do? TIA ya'll.
So here's where things get fishy. Yesterday we spoke to our buying agent about it. She was assuring us that we can still make it happen (well, of course she really wants it to happen). Then she threw out the idea that we'll just up the buying price and then the sellers will use that additional money towards the additional down payment we need. I asked whether we'd still finance the same amount with the bank and she replied that we'd finance MORE. This was her only suggestion. She did not suggest that the sellers pay closing costs, which benefits us and is ethical and normal.
WHY on earth would DH and I agree to this? This deal benefits our agent, the sellers, and the sellers agent, and it costs US more! We are close to walking away from the whole thing, and I'm thinking about reporting her and the sellers agent. I asked the mortgage guy at the bank what he thought of her suggestion. He said that it's actually not legal in the traditional loan that we're doing. I also told him that I found something unethical about her suggestion but that I wasn't sure I understood it correctly (I do, but I wanted his reaction). He said that I understood her suggestion just fine.
So, WTH should we do? TIA ya'll.