>I do blog, it is like an online journey,,, I do not pay
>attention to the weirdos,,, I just delete them, not interested
>or looking
Same here, Norma.
I've had online journals, way back since '95, long before blogs(short for "web log") became popular. I did have to learn HTML and some java scripting. Nowadays, it's like e-mail. You type your entry and submit it. Simple as that. I've had pieces published because of these pre-blogging online journals, something I never expected.
I'd say if you choose to do one, pick out the host carefully. There is an entire universe out there devoted to FREE blogs, and some of them don't even put ads on your pages. I'd pick a "community" that echoes bits and pieces of myself and where members share some of my interests.
I've had mostly good feedback from the beginning. As Norma said, just ignore those weirdos and psychos. There are a lot of people out there who have nothing better to do with their time and who feel so badly about themselves (but don't even know it) that they feel compelled to stir up trouble with total strangers. The best and I think the only thing to do is ignore these people since you give them power by responding to them and giving them the attention they so desperately need.
You don't have to share any information you don't want to with anybody. You are not obligated to lay down your life to strangers or make friends with anyone just because you have a blog. What I put out there isn't what is ALL in here, in my mind, my gut, my household, my life. What is out there is only a small part of what I am. How personal it seems depends on who's doing the reading and interpretation. If I get messages that I feel are quite invasive and presumptuous, maybe not entirely nasty, I just delete it. You know how Cathe says you control the weight and you don't let the weight jerk you around? I apply that thought in blogging. It's my blog, it's my entries, I'm in control. I'm not going to let anybody rile me up because this somebody misinterpreted what I said. It's like being on a public forum. If you don't like the thread or post, don't respond.
If you have more questions, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. I hope this helps you in making a decision.
Pinky