Susan:
My first child was by c-section. I got pregnant one year later. During the 2nd pregancy my doctor scheduled me for a c-section. I told him I'd rather try a natural delivery. He was very supportive. 21 months after my C-section I had a VBAC.
Looking back I realize that I was depressed about my c-section. I felt I had failed and I didn't get to "experience" child birth. To be honest a lot of other women made me feel that way too. So, I was determined to have the perfect birth story for my second child. It was silly.
After my VBAC I realized that it doesn't matter how the baby comes out. I'm serious -- whether it is your vagina, your belly -- goodness it wouldn't matter if the baby came out of your nose. You are pregnant, you created a life, you will carry that baby for 9 months and raise that child for the rest of your life. Those few moments of "giving birth" really doesn't matter as long as you and your baby are healthy. You see, neither way was easier, or better, just different. Nothing else.
So - I say, do your research, talk to your doctor. And do what is healty for you and your baby. There is no right or wrong way to have a baby.
I hope this helps. I felt bad about myself for a year. I only wish I would have been lucky enough to have all the supportive women that you have on this forum to explain to me that a c-section isn't a failed attempt at childbirth! Now, years later, I have two healty kids and I gave birth to them both!!
Take care,
Michelle