nancy324
Cathlete
DH and I went for our annual physicals this week and the doctor called with our results yesterday. She said that DH's blood sugar level is "borderline normal" and his blood pressure is a bit high, even though he is on meds for it. Her report says these things "indicate the need for weight reduction".
He's pretty good about exercising during the warm weather, because he loves to ride his bike. The problem is really his eating. We are so different. I grew up with a Mom who was a great, health-conscious cook, so I learned to love everything that is good for me. He, on the other hand, had a (wonderful) Mom who was a disaster in the kitchen and didn't have a clue about healthy eating. Fortunately, he does like vegetables, and he now loves to eat salads with me for dinner. Unfortunately, he uses a high fat, high sugar bottled dressing and uses too much of it.
He's tired of hearing from me on this topic, and I don't want to preach to him anymore. I suggested that he see a nutritionist, but I think I'm going to have to mention it several more times to get him to pay attention.
Sometimes it feels like we're in a mixed marriage. Almost like we have different religions and don't understand each other. He seems to think it's fine to go to doctors and have them give you medications for things like high blood pressure, whereas I want to control as much as possible with natural, healthy, preventative measures.
I know. I'm not him. If he's okay with getting diabetes, who am I to stop him? But I want SO MUCH to stop him from getting diabetes NOW, while there's still time. Do you know what I mean? Does anyone else have this kind of issue? Any suggestions?
-Nancy
He's pretty good about exercising during the warm weather, because he loves to ride his bike. The problem is really his eating. We are so different. I grew up with a Mom who was a great, health-conscious cook, so I learned to love everything that is good for me. He, on the other hand, had a (wonderful) Mom who was a disaster in the kitchen and didn't have a clue about healthy eating. Fortunately, he does like vegetables, and he now loves to eat salads with me for dinner. Unfortunately, he uses a high fat, high sugar bottled dressing and uses too much of it.
He's tired of hearing from me on this topic, and I don't want to preach to him anymore. I suggested that he see a nutritionist, but I think I'm going to have to mention it several more times to get him to pay attention.
Sometimes it feels like we're in a mixed marriage. Almost like we have different religions and don't understand each other. He seems to think it's fine to go to doctors and have them give you medications for things like high blood pressure, whereas I want to control as much as possible with natural, healthy, preventative measures.
I know. I'm not him. If he's okay with getting diabetes, who am I to stop him? But I want SO MUCH to stop him from getting diabetes NOW, while there's still time. Do you know what I mean? Does anyone else have this kind of issue? Any suggestions?
-Nancy