Daily Check-in
Good morning! Happy Good Friday! I shared in previous posts that I would most likely be taking a break from the forums this week. This is my biggest week for ministry every year, and I usually step away from the computer to spend time in focused prayer.
Several years ago, a few friends from my church family decided to step outside our comfort zone and leave the safety of the church building to celebrate the Easter season by demonstrating the unfailing love and amazing grace of God to women who have often known nothing but perverted affection, abuse, condemnation, judgment, and rejection. Instead of sitting on a church pew in a pretty new dress, each of us decided to get out in the world and be the love of Jesus to these women. I prayed the first year while a few friends went into the men’s clubs and delivered gift bags to the dancers, waitresses, bartenders, and bouncers. I went into the clubs the next 2 years, and it was the most amazing experience. I have such a heart for women in bondage. It is my deepest desire to inspire women to rise above their circumstances, pursue their dreams with a passion, and be all they were created to be. One of the greatest blessings in my life that has resulted from experiencing so much shame and rejection in my own life is the supernatural ability to love people unconditionally. I do not look down on these women or think I am better than any of them. One of the reasons I was chosen for this ministry is because I love these women without judging or condemning them.
Many of these women come from abusive homes. Many of them are single mothers. They are living a tough life. One of them was still dancing when she was 8 months pregnant! Most of them dream of getting an education or otherwise breaking free from their present reality. When one of the girls shares her dream of going to college, it is such a joy to speak hope into her dreams. Several of the dancers have completed nursing school or some other form of higher education and told us last year that we would not be seeing them again because they graduated. The girls love us and look forward to our visit every year. They tell the new dancers about us, and our arrival is greatly anticipated. They literally jump for joy like little children on Christmas morning. This is likely the only time anyone gives them a gift without expecting anything in return. The pretty pastel gift bags are filled with costume jewelry, decorative barrettes or hair clips, makeup, perfume, body spray, bubble bath, bath gel, body lotion, candles, Easter candy, gum, inspirational books, and similar items. We also include a beautiful lavender scroll with the story of Mary Magdalene, a stuffed angel bunny, and Christian literature if they are interested in finding out why we love them so much. Some of them have expressed an interest in visiting our church family, and we want them to know without a doubt that they are welcome just as they are. We love them unconditionally and will receive them with open arms. We want to give these precious women something that makes them feel beautiful and loved by God.
This will be our fourth year to venture into the clubs. We trained new girls this week for the club ministry, so I will be praying in the parking lot while they go into the clubs. Our church family blessed us financially this year, and we have enough money to expand our outreach. It took us 4 hours last night to pack 180 gift bags! That is more than twice as many as we have packed in previous years. One of my friends is delivering gift bags to a shelter for homeless women this morning. After the club outreach, we are splitting into two teams. One team is planning to deliver gift bags to the women and children who are living in the family abuse shelter. Since I am a woman of faith and more or less fearless, I have been asked to step outside my comfort zone and do a street ministry this year. God has opened doors for us and led us to a “tour guide” who is familiar with the streets and knows where to find all the prostitutes on a Friday night. Because of the nature of this outreach, we will be out much later at night in a very dangerous part of town. This ministry has always involved an element of danger, but it is much greater for me this year. Your prayers would be greatly appreciated especially between 7:00 p.m. and 11:00 p.m. tonight.
I was originally planning to start my next Cathe rotation on Easter Sunday because I anticipated what this week would be like. As anxious as I was to get started this week, I was tired after all the sleepless nights during my recovery week. I did enjoy Total Body Stretching and Low Impact Step this week to get my Cathe fix but otherwise rebounded, jogged in the pool, and prayed fervently. It looks like I will be starting my next rotation on Easter as originally planned.
I have been praying all week for my check-in friends. Tammy, I am praising God for the progress your mother is making. Jane, I am praying for your son and his wife and looking forward to the blessed arrival. Your concern for me is precious. Conni, I have been praying fervently for you and your husband. Wendy, I am still praying for little Tommy and his parents too.
Phyllis, I read your comment about me being away on a shoe shopping spree and laughed out loud. You are so funny!
I miss y’all like crazy and look forward to getting back on track with daily check-ins. I have a busy day ahead of me and a long night of ministry. I will most likely check-in again tomorrow. Love and hugs to everyone. Thanks for loving me and thinking about me while I was away. Y’all are precious to me.
Blessings,
Heather B.
“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us” (Hebrews 12:1 NIV).