RE: Hi Tina...
Tina! I totally understand your frustration. It does take a while to learn step...but you will get it. Preview your step tapes a couple of times, rewind and look at the steps you don't understand. Try it without using a step or just the 4" top, rewind,and try again.I learned Cathe's step by doing Step Heat, then I went on to Step Jam and the step portion of MIC - I can now do Rythmic Step and each tape gets easier to do. All of a sudden, you just "get" it! And then new tapes are MUCH easier to learn.
Listen to Honeybunch - these are cardio workouts - it doesn't matter if you can do all of the choreography! As long as your heartrate is up - you're doing great!!! I just recently noticed that I have been doing one of the moves completely wrong and sometimes I end up on the wrong side of the step, but I'm still having fun!
Don't give up! Really, if I can do it, so can you!!!