Hi all~! I agree with Cathe~it's been so fun to read everyone's reports. =) I'm 23 weeks (as of yesterday), and my REAL ultrasound is next Thurs (had one at 16 weeks, b/c I was joking about twins, so my doc said, let's go look! LOL!).
This was NOT an energetic, eating-claen kind of week =(... but I'm getting really grossed out on the crap I've eaten and the lack of activity, so I think this week will be 100% better! I feel so lazy and fatigued when I don't work out at least 3x a week.
Erika~ that is AWFUL about your insurance co! No way. There IS something wrong... you are a worried mama who can get NO rest b/c you are constantly needing the reassurance of seeing the baby on the screen... so I'd push like HECK to get your doc to give you one. Sometimes you really need to employ the doc as an ally. It's so bizarre, b/c my sis-in-law has Kaiser, and she's already had *3* ultrasounds (there are NO problems in her preg, they are just curious. No fair!)
Candori~ Hi! I remember with my first not really knowing what to expect... but with this one, I was feeling twinges at 14 weeks, and now I feel the movement ALL the time, to where it's difficult to relax and fall asleep at nite (the baby's most active time). It's totally normal that you wouldn't recongnize fetal movement right off the bat.
As far as learning the gender... for me, it's kind of like the AFP test, the results of which I'll get next week. With the AFP, the only point in knowing is the preparation, to be prepared to properly care for a child who has problems. The same with the gender~ I'd like to be prepared. Childbirth in itself is such an emotional time. I have a son, and I'm only having 2 children, so I'd naturally like to have a girl. Knowing in advance will put me in the mindset and allow me to be totally ready and pumped up for whatever I have, boy or girl. =)
That's just MHO.. I really wish I'd waited with my first, but now I NEED to know! LOL!
Michelle in So Cal