Calories vs Exercise

Govtgirl

Cathlete
I know we girls can talk this subject to death ;-) but can we talk about it some more anyway? I have GOT to drop this last 10 pounds, and of course its not coming off like I want, and like it did years ago.

I need some inspiration that cutting my calories is what is going to do this, because exercise alone ain't cutting it. I weigh 135 and eat about 2200 calories a day. I guess that's a lot, but boy I'm having trouble eating less. I just love my food!

Can anyone share their stories about what changing thier diet did for them? And if you don't mind, your calories and weight, for comparison? If you don't want to post weight I understand, but I'm just looking for a baseline. I feel like I'm starving and pathetic on something like 1500 calories a day, but that may be what it takes to drop this weight. Thanks! :)
 
Hi Lisa!

I think that it varies for everyone. I know that I have a friend who can eat waaaay more then i do, but stay around the same weight. If I ate what see ate (when she eats cause half the time she is on a diet) I would gain 5 lbs instintly!

When I watch what I eat, I probably eat between 1300-1800 cals a day. I have never really counted. It also depends on what time I get up in the morning. When I work day shifts, I get up at 5 to workout, so of course I eat more through out the day, so those days would probably be my higher days.

I am 5'4" (almost;) ) and the scale tetters between 120-122....

Lori:)
 
I agree with Lori absolutely. It so varies for each person. I am 5'4 (just!) and when I eat clean the calories are around 1600/day. That will keep me about 116 with 1 hour cardio 6 times a week. However, that does not keep ME very happy. I do better with about 2300 calories a day and a weight of 121. I know what to eat to keep my weight lower but I always feels so hungry! In my experience, unless you run 12 miles a day you are always going to have to watch both calories and exercise to keep weight off.
 
ITA with what the others have said. It's so person and circumstance specific. I don't count calories regularly but my guess is that I eat 2000 - 2200 a day. I do 2-3 hours of cardio per week and the rest is heavy weights and yoga. I don't know my weight but I'd guess around 120-125.

I know many swear by clean eating but for me it's always been exercise that matters most, which is a good thing seeing as I love to eat!

Sparrow

ETA: just wanted to say that I was able to get into my best shape when I stopped thinking about it so much. I know that sounds counter-productive but it's true! Once I stopped worrying about numbers and started listening to what my body needed, it all just sort of fell into place. Hope that doesn't sound too loopy! :D


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Hi Lisa.

If you normally eat 2200 calories then you simply shouldn't cut your calories down to 1500. That's too big of a deficit and not a good idea. Your calorie deficit should never be more then 500 cals per day which would make your minimum calorie intake 1700.

Have you ever tried calorie staggering? You get to eat maintanence cals every 4th day. It might help spur you on to successfully eat at a deficit the rest of the time.

Also, I do not know what your diet is like but if there is room for improvement with WHAT you eat, that could help tremendously too!

Good luck! I know how hard it can be!
 
I dropped 20 lbs a few years ago.
I was 5'2, 132 lbs and gettinng real chunky, real fast (Wendy's and Strawberry Shortcake Rolls every day will do that lol)
I struggled with it tremendously (trying to get it off that is)-- and I was still at an age where most girls do not have to worry much about it yet.
I gain and store fat real easy. My mother is 5'2 and was at one point 160 lbs for years and I actually have about 70+% of my FATHER's genetics-- and he's not a small guy, so Im predisposed to carry a lot of weight lol!
I cut back on eating (but for a compulsive binge eater I was still eating way too much).
I count calories NOW, now that Im the weight I want to be and dealing mostly with weight training.
But I found that watching the FAT is what finally pushed me over my hump. Your body gets used to carrying a certain weight around for a long time and it doesn't want to let it go. It took me 4 months before I started shedding the weight at the average rate (1.5 lbs per week).
I didn't even think of calorie counting at the time. I cut down to 20g of fat a day or LESS.
Sounds painfull, but it really wasn't that bad (and I love my food too!) I cut out ALL FRIED FOOD COMPLETELY, until I got the weight off (now I don't have to have it every day and think of it as a treat once in a while in moderation).
I ate a lot of bean, veggie, rice dishes (I like a lot of Latin food) and would throw some chicken or tempeh in it for protein and consistency. I use a LOT of spices and I can tell you that simply changing the spices around can take the same leftover dish and turn it a hundred different ways!
I remember having a lot of turkey sandwiches of the highest fiber bread that I could find that I could tolerate to eat. High fiber was another HUGE issue for me.. fiber absorbs calories and having it will reduce the amount of calories your body absorbs, helping to keep your linings clean and lower cholesterol as well :)
Come to think of it I actually ate plenty at the time, just NO FAT.
I did exercise a LOT though. I did weights, but more CARDIO as I had to lose the weight before I could build the mass.
I did about 50 minutes staggered, 5-6 days per week. I was DETERMINNED so I didn't hold back. When you spend 4 months doing somehting you've never really had to do before (exercise haha) and get NOTHING from it, you get PO'd and do whatever you have to do to see a RESULT.
I can't do that much cardio now, haven't since and don't think I even could lol. But it worked at the time.
Now Im carefull with the garbage I eat, if I need to lose a couple lbs for something or if Ive been slacking then Ill throw an extra cardio or two in there, but I typically do it twice a week anyway(skate practice).
Ive even found than doing 10 mintues of drills or jumprope intervals, or anything low impact after a weight routine helps to give the heart rate an elevation for an extra 10 mins so it burns a few more. That way I don't have to do the WHOLE 30 minutes (heart rate is already up from the weights).
I would focus more on cardio when you need to lose more than a few pounds, do less weights.
That's just me, do what you will with my personal experience imput :)
Good luck!
 
Thanks everybody! :) Weighing 120-125 is exactly where I want to be. I joined one of those food diary sites so I can keep track of what I eat for a few days, just to get an idea where I'm at. For all I know, I'm eating 2800 calories a day! I'm sure I've been underestmating. thanks again!
 
I've been struggling with losing that last 10 pounds for several months now. Yesterday I ordered Denise Austin's Lose 10 Pounds in 28 days book. It lets you eat 1500 calories a day. I have no idea how many calories I eat in a day. I already eat fairly good as it is but figure I must be doing something wrong b/c I can't shake this weight. I'm 5.6 and weigh around 147#. At the beginning of the year I started more heavy lifting and a little less cardio. I see I'm getting strong but the clothes aren't getting any bigger. I just started a Jari rotation to try and mix things up. Maybe working full body 3 days a week instead of 3 or 4 day splits doesn't work for me. I'm still trying to figure that one out.

Has anyone tried Denise's book? I know it's a bit old and probably won't tell me anything I don't already know. One thing that attracted me to it was it laid out my grocery list for the week.

I'm turning 40 this December and really would like to be in great shape for that.

Anyhow, just to let you know you're not the only one out there struggling.
 
>
>ETA: just wanted to say that I was able to get into my best
>shape when I stopped thinking about it so much. I know that
>sounds counter-productive but it's true! Once I stopped
>worrying about numbers and started listening to what my body
>needed, it all just sort of fell into place. Hope that
>doesn't sound too loopy! :D

I completely agree!

I think this is so important to understand. I have never counted a calorie in my life. You can get so bogged down in "counting" that you miss the bigger picture... it's about a life long committment to eating right and eating enough. I believe that depriving yourself does two things... it teaches you bad eating habits, and it messes up your metabolism.

I have always gone by a few simple rules and it has kept my weight the same for years. I watch portions. I rarely eat everything in front of me. I always get full before I'm finished. Don't be afraid to leave food on your plate. I am careful with eating bread, sugar and pasta. I don't eliminate these things, but I eat little amounts of them.

I don't deny myself anything that I really want, I just don't eat a lot of it. If I want chocolate, I eat a Hershey's mini and I'm done. If I want bread, I eat two bites of bread and butter, and I'm done.

I exercise daily, but honestly, my weight would not change if I didn't exercise. I wouldn't be as toned as I want to be, but weight control is about correct eating habits.

I'm 5'7" tall and I've weighed 115 lbs (or less) for probably 35 years.
 
Age - 46, dress size 6, height 5-4, weight 140.

I lost 25 pounds starting last July by eating small meals every couple of hours. I really watched my portion size, ate lots of fruits and veggies, fish at least 5 times a week. All starches were whole wheat, or grain. Made sure my portion sizes were normal portion sizes by measuring(3/4 cup a cereal does NOT fill the bowl).Did not calorie count, but was probably around 1800 calories. I also work out 10-15 hours a week.
 

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