>eat when I'm hungry and stop when I'm full.
>Diets are a mistake because they put too much focus on the food. You start thinking about what you can and can't eat all the time.
>Instead of controlling your food, it starts controlling you. The key is to enjoy your food but keep it in its proper perspective -it's only fuel!
Amen. What you said sums up so, so much. Anything will work for a time if you can stick to the rules. The problem is (and it's a more dramatic problem if you have some Obessive-Compulsive type quirks or full blown OCD) that you have an OBSESSION. You eat, but you spend your day worrying about your next meal, worrying if you chewed your food enough times before swallowing, worrying if you measured your portions correctly -- maybe there was an extra gram of this or that, you can't go to a restaurant because you can't trust that they really did not use this type of fat or that type of fat when they made your dinner. You become a maniac. It solves the problem in that instead of numbing yourself with food, you can temporarily numb yourself with the new obsession about food. Eventually, almost inevitably, you trade back to the original obsession as you are a master of it and it is a "more comfortable" obsession. The trick -- I hate using that word -- is to learn to LIVE your life outside of all the crap that's thrown at you about what you should be doing, could be doing, need to be doing about food.
As you said -- you need to eat when you're hungry, stop when you're full and MOVE YOUR BODY.
If you are an active person or training to become a more active person, try cutting your calories by NO MORE THAN 20% -- for many of us active people this means we may be eating as much as 1800 calories a day to lose weight and close to 2200-2400 to maintain.
You will never be hungry, you will have the strength you need to deal with the day (and those Cathe workouts)... and something else that this one sports nutrionist said (Nancy Clark)you may not lose weight EVERY day... and that's okay too because you will lose the weight.
I say this as someone who is very, very good at gaining weight. I certainly don't have the system perfect... but I'm trying to keep my butt moving no matter what goes in my mouth and I figure it will all work out (no pun intended) in the end!
Working out is the most stabilizing thing I have found in controlling binging and overall weight.
Speaking of which... I HAVE to get over this evil flu thing. Time to start officially training for Cincinnati in May (Flying Pig Marathon)!
Take care,
Zoelda