I'm with you, no "diets" please. I can't say that I saw results without paying attention to what I eat but, definitely yes, I saw results without "dieting". That's been the wonderful thing about weight training with Cathe for me. I have not been on "a diet" in over 5 years and I have lost about 25 pounds and look as though I have lost more than that because of the increased muscle mass and toning.
My advice, for what it's worth, is to find the eating plan that works FOR YOU and is something you can pretty much live with. For me, it's just trying to eat healthy foods, foods I enjoy, and stop eating when I am no longer hungry. I plan ahead so I can have healthy foods I like in the fridge, take my lunch to work, have a snack when I'm hungry, etc. Also at dinner I just put about half of what I used to on my plate and if I'm still hungry then I have a little more. When I eat out, I try to make a reasonably healthy choice most of the time and then take home part of the food because restaurants almost always serve one person enough food for two. If I'm splurging in a restaurant and having something really fattening, then I just eat part of it and leave the rest. I also never go hungry for any longer than it takes me to find a healthy snack.
I started doing this along with Cathe weight training 2 or 3 time s a week and some sort of aerobic activity 3 or 4 times a week (I walk or run) about 5 years ago. You will more than likely (if you are anything like me!) have to be VERY patient though. I did start seeing results in that my body started looking more toned and and I even dropped a clothing size but it was several months on this routine before I started dropping pounds and the weight loss was slow but it came off. I am relatively sure that, at age 48, I can probably maintain this lifestyle and keep the weight off.
Good luck and hang in there. Regular exercise (weight training and aerobic activity) along with whatever plan works for you to eat only what your body needs MOST of the time (occasional splurges are also important to be able to do this for the long haul) is about the only way to lose weight and maintain the weight loss ....