gidget1978
Cathlete
Let me start off by saying I love my inlaws. They are really sweet people who go above and beyond most of the time but last night my MIL kind of struck a nerve.
Since having DS 9 monthes ago, I lost all of my baby weight within 4 monthes and after I stopped bf'ing I dropped an additional 8 lbs. That right now brings me to 122 lbs @ 5'4". A good weight as far as I am concerned. Im not skin over bone and I eat...but keep in mine I am still very active with my workouts plus keeping up with a mobile baby.
Last night I was getting ready for a girls night out and we ordered in pizza. I sat next to my MIL while eating my pizza and wings, then went to get ready. When I came back I asked DH where my drinks were. He bought some drinks called Smirnoff Ultra One, which to them sounded like it was going to be high in alcohol, instead they were low in carbs and cals.100 cals a bottle and I like them so why pick up a higher calorie drink just to make everyone else happy?
I was heading back up the steps when I heard her say, " I can't wait for her to get pregnant again so she will stop her foolishness" When I came back down she said it again, to me. She also mubbled something about watching everything I eat....did she not see me eating the pizza? Does she not know where the brownies and the cookies came from that she found in my fridge?
After she said that DH got up from where he was sitting and came out. He said, "mom, she eats alot. But she also works alot. Anyone who runs the amount she does and worksout like she does, has to be small". She kind of got a little sheepish and just said that she was jealous b/c when DH first started going out with me we fit into the same size clothes and now we don't anymore. She is 10 lbs heavier and I am 10 lbs lighter. Not to mention I am toned while she isn't.
Then when I get out with the girls, I said to one of them that I had a bad stomach. She said "thats cause its probably empty" That also left my scratching my head wondering what she meant by that.
Are people assuming that just b/c I lost another 8 lbs that I am starving to death? Im getting tired of explaining myself. I like the way I look. I like the fact that I can wear any pair of jeans in my closet without feeling nipped off in the middle. But I hate the comments. I guess in time they will get use to it.
Lori
ETA: The pics in my picture trail are before I lost the extra weight. Ill try to get a new one up from last night
Since having DS 9 monthes ago, I lost all of my baby weight within 4 monthes and after I stopped bf'ing I dropped an additional 8 lbs. That right now brings me to 122 lbs @ 5'4". A good weight as far as I am concerned. Im not skin over bone and I eat...but keep in mine I am still very active with my workouts plus keeping up with a mobile baby.
Last night I was getting ready for a girls night out and we ordered in pizza. I sat next to my MIL while eating my pizza and wings, then went to get ready. When I came back I asked DH where my drinks were. He bought some drinks called Smirnoff Ultra One, which to them sounded like it was going to be high in alcohol, instead they were low in carbs and cals.100 cals a bottle and I like them so why pick up a higher calorie drink just to make everyone else happy?
I was heading back up the steps when I heard her say, " I can't wait for her to get pregnant again so she will stop her foolishness" When I came back down she said it again, to me. She also mubbled something about watching everything I eat....did she not see me eating the pizza? Does she not know where the brownies and the cookies came from that she found in my fridge?
After she said that DH got up from where he was sitting and came out. He said, "mom, she eats alot. But she also works alot. Anyone who runs the amount she does and worksout like she does, has to be small". She kind of got a little sheepish and just said that she was jealous b/c when DH first started going out with me we fit into the same size clothes and now we don't anymore. She is 10 lbs heavier and I am 10 lbs lighter. Not to mention I am toned while she isn't.
Then when I get out with the girls, I said to one of them that I had a bad stomach. She said "thats cause its probably empty" That also left my scratching my head wondering what she meant by that.
Are people assuming that just b/c I lost another 8 lbs that I am starving to death? Im getting tired of explaining myself. I like the way I look. I like the fact that I can wear any pair of jeans in my closet without feeling nipped off in the middle. But I hate the comments. I guess in time they will get use to it.
Lori
ETA: The pics in my picture trail are before I lost the extra weight. Ill try to get a new one up from last night