Hi everyone, late posting. Let's see, didn't sleep good, but because I was thinking of good things at 2am (DS23 got a job offer for work he really wants to do at a different company, same pay, but he'll learn so much more), so slept in, didn't w/o this morning, had to get to work, then rude co-worker asks, "what's wrong with your face, what's on your cheek?", uh, " that's my SCAR from my cancer surgery!" co-worker: "it looks much worse, what happened"....I'm self conscience enough I don't need that, do I ask why you have a huge pimple on your chin? RUDE! So, I avoided her all day, maybe I'm too sensitive, but I know you can see these scars, it's not healing as fast as some, will see what derm says, but meanwhile I'm trying to live with it knowing it's the scars that prove I've lived this life, ya know? So, then my team lead was down at her desk crying on the phone, and everyone gets all what's wrong, I said "leave her alone, when she wants to tells us she will", what does RUDE co-worker do? She runs over to team leads desk as soon as she gets off phone while she's still crying to see what is wrong....I say to be nosey. Then team lead ends up leaving, walking out crying and then everyone else in the big room is like, what's wrong with her? WHY are people so nosey? I wanted to give her privacy (as much as we can working on top of each other). On the flip side, me and a couple other people cut up while mgr was out at mtg and got a good laugh when male co-worker, accidentally hit my shoulder with a dowel flying thru the air, I thought at first my bra strap had broke because of where it hit, I told him we started cracking up (we are all on headsets, texting each other), then another girl asked what we were laughing at, I told her and she started cracking up too. Like why would I think THAT, but I did and started wondering how I would recover my wardrobe! I got home and did end up doing UB and abs of ME. 35 min or so and perfect for my out of shape post vacay body!
Roxie, I hope your DH finds something soon, isn't that awful short notice? Reminds me to give thanks for what I do have and try not to complain

But complaining is my way of venting
Mary, a Longaberger basket, imagine that in your area! Sounds like a great birthday, but why didn't you do it up Lisa-style and celebrate all month long? lol
Peng, I feel the same way about DH and sleep, exactly!
Ronne, I had an internal convo in my head where I had a case of blurtosis about age, guess that morphed into blurtosis about stupid co-workers.
Jody, now you know, you wouldn't have known if you hadn't tried. re: chest spot, I'm pretty sure it's basal cell, it is a bummer, but at least I'm pretty sure it's been coming and going for YEARS so it's not NEW per say. Guess this is my cross to bear. As far as working less, I've decided just to bluntly ask for less work time and not go into any details. Kind of like a man would do, us women tend to talk too much and give too many details. I'm waiting for a couple weeks so it's not like, she just got back from vacation and now doesn't want to work.