Personally, I have 2 very close 3D friends...both are neighbors. One lives right across the street from me. I'm God Mother to her daughter (who just turned 1), and my boys and I have dinner with them once a week. She and I talk about anything and everything, and very bluntly too, I might add (lol). My other close friend lives right around the corner from me. I chat with her pretty much every day, but we chat on a different level. She's 10 years older than me and I find that our opinions on things differ. She's not as open as I am and she's very modest and shy.
Add to that, the 'circle' of 3D friends that I've grown close to....they are just that...a CIRCLE. Our common slogan is "it takes a village to...." and you fill in the blank. There are about 12-15 of us all together, and we get together every 6 weeks or so for various reasons...Book Club meeting, Bunco Night, a holiday party, etc. WE've all come to lean on each other during very hard times...and we've all had our share over the past 8-10 years. They jump in whenever somebody's in trouble and don't ask twice about it. At the same time, they're not pushy or nosy...just considerate and generous!
I consider myself VERY lucky to have this around me. I'll tell you what...I don't know if I could have survived some of the crap that's gotten thrown to me without these very fine women. Growing up, I always had 1 best friend, but I always got along better with the guys, so I was very close to my boy friend's group of guys. So I didn't have all the 'girl stuff' and support until I became an adult and moved into my house.
WOW!!!! THANKS for bringing this subject up! It's interesting to see the differences in us all. QUite interesting!
Gayle
p.s. I didn't forget my cyber friends, though! I've gotten to know quite a bit of FABULOUS women from this forum in particular and that number grows all the time!