He was able to leave the ovaries , so there was no need for HRT and after a rough go , he was able to take the uterus vaginally , so I only had tiny scars from the Laparoscope . I mention all this because my Dr. was a really great guy so he really fought for the best possible outcome for me . Another Dr. might have given up and just taken everything in an even more aggressive way . This is why you have to have someone you trust who is totally in your corner . I'm happy to help you with anything or question you have , and just want to say again that your instincts are sharp and seem lightyears ahead of this Dr. you've told me about ! I generally think that personal referrals are best so any friend you know that likes her Gynecologist is where I'd start . Please let me know what you find - I'll be thinking of you - and always pm me with any question , big or small that you might have . Stay in touch - Kate