Looking like Cathe
Hi Lena:
I'm not Cathe, but I'm butting in anyway. I'm waiting for the eggs to cool enough to decorate them, otherwise I would spare you my thoughts.
We all just do our best with the genetics we are given. Unless you have a build similar to Cathe's, you will never look like her, no matter how carefully you watch your diet or how intensely you work out. However, if you eat reasonably nutritiously and moderately and exercise 5 or 6 days a week, incorporating strength, cardio and flexibility, you will be delighted with how good you will look and how good you'll feel. You will look like YOU and you will look great. And you don't have to spend hours a day exercising to achieve that. (And from what she's posted here, I don't believe that Cathe spends hours a day working out either -- she just makes it count when she *is* working out.)
I don't belong to a gym anymore, but when I did, I was always amazed at the variety of female body types in the locker room. Many of the women looked fantastic and fit, but they came in all different sizes and shapes.
As women, we fixate on what is "wrong" with us. In my case, that's my gut. It's better to focus on what we like about ourselves. I like my legs and butt. I'm proud of them, because I built them myself (me and MIS and PS, that is!) Perfection isn't out there, but I'm a 40-year old mom that can still wear a 2-piece when I need to. And that's good enough for me.
I'm afraid I sound preachy, but I hope when you read this instead you'll hear that I'm trying to sound encouraging ... Keep working out and you'll find it's worth it.