Who guessed I'd get back to sleep so therefore skip the w/o? I do think I needed the sleep more.
Ronne, how easy is it to "hop a train from Ireland to Paris", or "hop a train from Ireland to Italy"? My DS wants to take his honeymoon to Ireland (SHE claims she's irish....I look more irish than she does, and I'm not irish). He has NO money so what do you think we are talking about this weekend? Yep, borrowing from us (since the inlaws have NO money). I need to get the emotion out and treat it like a transaction I think (I can't have the kid miss his honeymooon, but IRELAND? Heck I went to the mountains for mine...guess things were just too simple way back then). I'm going to ask for their monthly budget and proof as to meeting or missing it, the wedding budget (same as whether they are meeting or missing), then any outstanding loans I don't know about, payment schedule, etc. I know I'm rambling but I think you get my drift. There will be no EASY borrowing, make them work for it.
sorry to make it short, gotta run