<--Your momma's too fat, your daddy's too thin

<---Waves bye bye to my OAL buddies...doesn't log in on the weekends; hates the computer and my shoulder screams too! :)
<---Hopes all of you have a great weekend
<---Thinks that if <---makes it through this weekend...can make it through ANYTHING! :) has decided to keep a stiff upper lip through it all.
<---Can hear the Rocky theme song...my theme song...is now ROTFLAO at self!
<---Screams YO ADRIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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<---Later babes...hard to type with water coming out of nose. :)
 
<--will attempt to make it through this weekend without stabbing a screwdriver in df's head
<--hopes youse all will come bail <--out of jail if <-- kill him
<--sincerely assures you he deserves it
 
<--says it's really getting rather violent around here!!
<--thinks maybe Lorie should shove her df down the purple pooper}(
<--not to worry <--will be there to bail you out
<--is pissed
<--called JC Penney's to find out about my backordered comforter set
<--found out that the company took it upon themselves to cancel <--order because they were behind and couldn't keep up x(
<--now <--have to wait until Nov. 23 for it:eek:
<--thinks they should have let me knowx(
<--sorry for complaining
<--must go clean up after the carpenter guy
<--will try to bbl
 
<--can't seem to find the info re: what Melissa is up to this weekend
<--needs to be filled in
<--also wonders what Lorie's DF did?
<--is sorry elainee's comforter is on back order
<--enjoyed being home today
<--needed a break
 
<--will leave <--speak to explain what's going on with df
<--knows you all will have some good advice

let's just say that this whole mess was partially brought on by his mother who i feel really manipulated me. here's the *short* story: she knew we were going to vegas for vacation in november. df had told me that he didn't want anyone from his family coming, he really wanted it to be a "me and him" thing (he's super private). so, i never said anything. i figured he would tell them when it was too late for them to make a reservation but before we went. anyway, i spoke to his mom on the phone the other day. just your basic hello, how are you. during the convo, SHE FLAT OUT ASKED ME if we were getting married in vegas. i had two choices, tell her the truth and beg her not to tell df or lie to her and have her be pissed at me for lying. so, i told her and BEGGED her not to say anything. she promised she wouldn't. you can guess what happened next. not only did she tell him i told, she reamed him for not inviting them.

i feel manipulated because she figured i wouldn't lie to her if she came out and asked me. i feel like she put me in a really bad position. i am also pissed off because she promised me she wouldn't say anything to him. then what does she do...run and tell him.

now the totally sucky part. df is saying if he can't trust me and i can't respect his wishes, that is something he needs to consider when he thinks about getting married. he doesn't even want to discuss vegas and says we're not going (i.e. not getting married). he is turning the whole thing around on me and saying it's my fault and it's this big sign of things to come (like i will never take into consideration what he wants or respect his wishes).

i am so incredibly pissed. he won't listen to me and he also says that the "story" i told him and what his dear mommy told him are not the same (*shocker*). funny thing is, he's totally not a mama's boy. in fact, her biggest complaint is that he never tells her anything and they hardly talk. now, all of a sudden, her word is gospel?!

oh, i am so pissed. the whole thing sucks. it has even got me thinking that she did this purposefully knowing how pissed he would be and hoping he would call off the wedding. maybe i am thinking too much, but that thought seems plausible to me.

df is truly a wonderful guy and i know he loves me but he can't see past his anger.

i have no idea what's going to happen. i am sure she has put all sorts of ideas in his head. i don't think it's that she doesn't like me, i don't think she wants her little boy to get married. she had to know how angry he would be if he found out she knew. I TOLD HER!!!

any opinions? advice?
 
Oh, Lorie! I am so sorry to hear about this. :( I don't have an opinion yet. Will have to think about it, but I just wanted to send you a BIG hug.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{LORIE}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
 
<--- is appalled at Lorie's DF's mother's behaviour and is also not so thrilled with her DF's behaviour
<--- would also be supremely annoyed (understatement of the year)
<--- thinks it's incredibly unfair of Lorie's DF to be doing this
<--- is pretty sure the D doesn't stand for dear or anything like it right now
<--- adds a note to Nance to say that yes, we are redoing the whole bathroom
 
<--thinks DF's mother had a lot of gall to ask that question
<--thinks Lorie was in a tight spot and had to make a spur of the moment decision
<--might have done the same thing, then realized after she hung up that she should have said "that's between DF and me"
<--definitely thinks Lorie was trying to do the right thing and had the best intentions, and believes that DF is VERY much overreacting
<--thinks DF's anger at Lorie will blow over shortly, after he thinks about it
<--thinks he will then turn his anger where it belongs: on DM
 
<--hopes nance is right but also thinks if df is going to not see clearly enough to see the situation for what it is then he is an a$$
<--agrees he is way overreacting
<--does not even want to talk to him
 
<--is going to sign off, see what's on tivo, and not answer the phone
<--will probably also silently seethe about df
<--will see if tomorrow brings more clarity
 
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