When a headache isn't a headache aka: AVM (long)

WildPony

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When a headache isn’t a headache, aka: AVM

On Oct.22nd my daughter and I were outside loading up my recumbent bike in the back of my truck to drive it down for service. A yellow jacket/wasp (note: angel #1) started buzzing my daughter and finally stung her under her right arm. She was soooo mad because we had plans and didn’t really have time for this. She has been stung before as we live on a 40 acre ranch in the Sierra Nevada’s. Well she came in mad and I looked at it and had her put some ice on it and take a couple on Advil. It’s now about 6 min. or less after the sting and my dd is back in the bed of the truck working on un-knotting the tie downs, when she starts to feel dizzy. Being a smart 14 year old she thinks to herself, “I better get out of the truck before I fall”. She starts to call to me and walks toward the front door. By the time she and I are meeting she loses all control of her right side and is totally a limp rag doll. I am carrying/supporting her into the house and she begins to vomit, so we head toward the bathroom. She is now propped up against the tub and I am running for the phone. You must understand we live about an hour away from the nearest large city. We have never had reason to use our local emergency system as we have only lived here a little over two years. Well the local paramedics get to her within 10 min. of my call and the ambulance within 15. Down the mountain we fly, anaphylactic shock right? Well sort of as you will see.

This could easily become a novella so I will try to give you guys the cliff note version. After spending the day (Friday the 22nd) in the ER and being treated for anaphylaxis we take dd home. By the time Monday comes and she needs to go to our primary care physician (whom was out so we saw his associate a new young man) she is weak but better except for this headache that won’t go away. She is sent home with 600 mg every 4 to 6 hours of Ibuprofen and told she is okay. Well come Wednesday morning she is throwing up. Now here is the guilty Mom part, I waited until Thursday to take her back in thinking that her tummy was tore up because of this “Super Ibuprofen” that she has been taking. We go back to the Dr. Thursday and her Dr. does an EKG and thinks we should go to the ER. Well several hours later she is seen and finally given something for her serve nausea and fluids but this headache won’t go away. Well the ER Dr. (angel # 2) says as long as she is here let’s do a CAT Scan. The test comes back and shows some bleeding in her brain. Whoa!!! Okay we’re freaked.

Up to the PICU she goes. Enter the localyocal Neuro Surgeon who proceeds to tell me and my dd who, are alone as the rest of the family are all in route, that he will need to cut her across the top of her skull, take it out and quote “dig around” to get to her thalamus (huh?) which he will have to probably cut away at least half of to get this thing out. (What thing?) We haven’t been told anything other than there is blood on her brain at this point. Then he say’s “Of course we will probably have some form of paralysis and possible other mental incapacities.” We both start to cry. This is before he even has a complete diagnosis which will determine if this is an aneurism or an AVM. He is only basing this on a CT. Finally after an angiogram she is diagnosed with an AVM (Arterial Venous Malformation). Basically this was a ticking time bomb that developed in Utero at about 6 to 8 weeks. It is a web of blood vessels that have surrounded themselves around my baby’s thalamus in the very center of her brain. She has had a stroke and a hemorrhage and will need very special medical intervention. Every Mom alarm is going off in my body. I know that a** is never going to touch her. Well we call in our forces in the family who have knowledge of who’s who in the Neuro field, plus my DH starts burning a hole in his laptop searching. Within a couple of hours we are telling Dr. Chopsalot (not real name) to refer us to a specific individual in this field who is the utmost authority in this field and start making arrangements with this Dr. as he assembles his team of real experts.

DD ends up having to wait about 18 hours until a bed in the PICU of Stanford’s Medical Lucille Packard’s Children’s Hospital in Palo Alto, Ca. is ready. She is stable though, on morphine for the pain, IV’s with fluids and Zofran for her nausea. We have her flown over in a helicopter as soon as they can take her. In comes the miracle team who has already met and discussed her case based on scan images stored on the Cd’s that were sent to them. They of course do their own diagnosis and come back with a plan of action. They had to get her BP down for a further CT and an MRI and then another anigio which they intended to not use as just a diagnostic tool but to perform a treatment procedure called an Embolization. She was not bleeding any more but was at great risk. The procedure called for a catheter to be placed in her groin area, then up through a main artery to her brain at which point she (dd), would be brought back up to a form of consciousness in order for the Neuro Radiology Dr. to determine that the area involved will not compromise any motor or neuro functions before he/they proceed. If all is going well at that point the next step is to use a form of medical “Superglue” to seal off a portion of the AVM that is being fed by the artery. This is to be done in several procedures to slowly allow the normal arteries to get use to the new flow of blood and not to over pressure the normal passage way. Also this shrinks the size of the AVM.

At this point today she has gone through two different Embolizations, one on Monday the 1st and one on the following Tuesday the 9th with her next scheduled for this Tues the 16th. She will need at least a total of 4 of these procedures and then will go through different procedure to get rid of the remaining vessels in the AVM. I will talk about this scientific marvel next time. Suffice to say that the way this AVM ruptured and the fact that is didn’t bleed directly into her brain but into her ventricle instead and although it was a significant amount of blood, she is very very lucky. The blood from the original bleeding has already started to “resolve” and is circulating out, which is sort of a spinal meningitis type thing that is temporary. The stats for this AVM are; 2 – 3 % chance of a spontaneous bleed each year. Each episode has a 10 – 15 % chance of death and a 20 – 30% chance of permanent neurologic damage.

My dd is a motocross rider, she has a MX bike, she is a blk belt in TKD, she rides horses and she is a very active girl. Had this thing ruptured in another way we could have been in a very different situation. We are certainly not out of the woods but we did get to bring her home for the weekend and she is only taking vicodin for the pain now which is soooo much better. She had tickets to a freestyle MX event in San Diego this weekend and was bummed about not being able to go. One of her Drs. told her that “Hey think about it, you have had two brain surgeries in the past week, maybe you should take it slow.” Ha Ha….. Whew!!!

So here we are After 5 CT Scans, 1 MRI, 3 Angiograms, 2 Embolizations, 4 trips to PICU, 2 trips to a regular floor and more pokes prods and meds than I can count. All these procedures with her enduring massive massive pain and receiving tons of morphine.

I can’t believe that she has gone through so much and her spirits are so high and she feels so great. She has even joked about being officially “stuck up” now. She also joked with the Drs. About the fact that she hasn’t ever been as bruised or sore as she is now so she doesn’t want to hear any complaining about her motorcycle, which she has never gotten this sore from. What a kid huh? (Proud Ma here)

Sorry, this really is the cliff notes version but I wanted to share with you all since I had never heard of this before and although it is rare it does exist. Furthermore I wanted you to know that getting a second opinion and doing your own research is always always a must. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Thanks, Debbie aka WildPony
 
Debbie! All I can say is "oh my gosh!" What an ordeal you've all been through. I totally agree about getting second opinions because nobody knows everything. This is just an unbelievable event.

I hope your daughter has a speedy recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jo
 
I am so glad your daughter is improving and pray for her complete recovery. Thank God you went for a second opinion and fought for your daughters best care. My thoughts and prayers are also with you.

Hopefull
 
Debbie, I am SO sorry your daughter (and her family) had to go through this. She must have been so frightened. It's amazing how resiliant they are when young, isn't it? She sounds like a brave & determined lady & I'm quite sure she's going to come through this just fine. Thank God things went as they did.

You are all in my thoughts & prayers with fingers crossed for good measure! Also tomorrow morning you will be in my prayer circle which numbers about 200 souls the last I heard.

Stay in touch...I know we'll all be waiting to hear good news.
Take care,
Ruth
 
You are in my prayers this week. Thank goodness you didn't panic and allow that doctor to poke around. You should be very proud of the way you handled the situation! Don't think I could have done as well!
 
Debbie, who would have thought a wasp could be in disguise as an angel, eh? Thank God for that insect. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious daughter. I have heard of this (being an 18 year veteran nurse), and it's one of those things that often is not diagnosed in time, as your daughter's was. You are truly blessed but I know you already know that! Good for you for sticking to your guns and finding a specialist to take her to!!! Thank you so much for sharing this story with us!! I have a daughter who's nearly 14, and I have tears in my eyes right now!!

Carol
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Debbie,

I am so glad your daughter is okay. Thank God for that bee sting!

You sound very knowledgeable and informed. Good for you. Being informed about your daughters condition is the best thing you can do for her.

All the best to you and your family. It sounds like you have a wonderful life out there is Nevada!

Lori
 
Wow you guys!!!! Thanks so much for your support! I do have a brave, courageous daughter. She is so sweet even when she has been lying there with IV’s and a Foley catheter, withering in pain, she will ever so politely ask her nurses. “Excuses me, my pain is starting to shoot up, may I please have something for it?” Then when they give it to her she’s “Thank you, very much.” One day one of the male nurses who was assigned to her in PICU said, “Honey you don’t have to thank me it’s my job.” Then he added “Your about to break my heart.” That’s when I piped in, “Yeah baby you better get used to doing that to guys”. We all have tried to keep a sense of levity during this whole thing. I mean it’s the way we all are and who wants to sit around and be all glooming and dooming?

Although I want to say this that the whole staff at Stanford’s Children’s Hospital have been amazing. My dd is old enough to understand what is going on and I have appreciated the way that all her Drs. & Nurses who deal with her talk to her. DD has been told every detail, every risk and everything to expect. No one has spoken down to her, which believe me she wouldn’t tolerate anyways. She is a commanding young woman who expects respect to be a two way street. I believe it is her attitude that is carrying her through this. Since such a huge part of these procedures requires her full on participation and honest assessment of how she feel. It has been important that she is so forthright. All her Drs. are amazed at her attitude and humor. Her support staff has told us over and over that this is the fun room and wish they could stay in here with us.

There are 3 of us who are in constant support, my DH, our oldest dd who lives in LA who is 22 and myself. G-Mom and the rest of family are out of state and better support at a distance. Since these procedures requires so much PICU time we are limited in who can stay anyways. Thank goodness for cell phones. The only hassle is that since we do live on a ranch we have to stay in a hotel in Palo Alto. One of us has to make the 4 hour drive back to the ranch to feed the, horses, cats, and dogs at least every 24 hours. My DH actually works in the Bay Area, he commutes on a weekly basis already. I won’t leave my dd’s side so it is actually the others who make the feeding critters commute. We do keep my dd’s little dog, Serena (a sheltie) with us at the hotel, she is able to meet dd downstairs every time she gets wheel-chair ambulatory. It helps a lot for dd to know that her animals are being cared for and that she actually gets to see Serena when she is able.

We will take off tomorrow morning for another week trip to Stanford and if all goes well she may be back home again next weekend. Then we will most likely do the same thing the following week. Embolization, 24 hours in PICU, 24 hours on regular floor and then hotel time and back home for a couple of days. At this point I don’t see anything other than the shine in my dd’s eyes and it is the brightest light in the world.

One more insight to her for you guys. When dd’s was being loaded up in helicopter leaving the first hospital to go to Stanford they were packing her IV’s and all into this tight spot. Well just before they closed the door she say’s “Mom, mom it’s all going to be okay, don’t freak out.” Talk about a great daughter!!! Even the pilot was like, “Awww.” As they lifted up she gave me a big thumbs ups and a smile.

Debbie aka: WildPony
 
Wow, Debbie! My mouth is still wide open! What an amazing series of events. I can't imagine all of the horrible emotions you and your family must have been feeling. Your daughter is one awesome kid- well, maybe more of an adult considering how brave she was! I hope she feels better soon.
 
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

We are going through a similar thing as you. On 7/16 my son had a full blown seizure. LIke you ER, CTscan, MRI, they found an aneurysm - though it had not ruptured, angiogram, ended out not being likely to rupture and not life threatening. Now they are trying to determine what caused the seizure - if in fact it was the aneurysm. More specialists, he has had to give up his passions (contact sports), school is a struggle with the meds. Somehow we get the strenght.

As with you lots of specialists, lots of prayers, trying to get him the best, fortunately we live close to wonderful hospitals.

you live life totally differently, looking for the blessing(s) of the day, some days easier than others and live life day by day.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
Debbie, what a great kid!! And, make sure you give yourself a few hundred pats on the back too, Mom. You raised her to be that great kid, remember? :) Sometimes our children are our greatest strength.

Carol
:)
 
Robyn, a co-worker of mine went through this last year. Her son had a seizure right before a football game. He was a senior. Same scenario - they found an aneurysm which had not ruptured, and they then looked for causes. Last I heard he was doing quite well, although football is out for him. He's going to college and is doing great though, so hang in there!! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Carol
:)
 
What a miracle!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter and family. Thank goodness that you proceeded with the route you did and thank goodness that she's recovering-here's to only positives from here on out!
julie
 
Wow Debbie! What a trying time you all have been through. The "thumbs up" from the helicopter from your daughter made me tear up bigtime! You need to take lots of credit for raising such a strong daughter. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all. Keep us posted. It's nice to "see" you posting here again. HUGS 2 U ALL!

Your-Friend-In-Fitness, DebbieH http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/wavey.gif[/img] If You Get The Choice To Sit It Out Or Dance...I Hope You DANCE!!!
 
Debbie,

I read your follow up post. You are so brave, and it sounds like your daughter is an amazing 14 year old. I will be thinking about her this weekend. Our children are a gift.

Thoughts and prayers,
Lori
 
I had a ruptured brain aneurysm last year which also causes bleeding in the brain- like a hemorraghic stroke. My left side is still paralyzed but your daughter is very lucky to have survived! The fact that she was joking around so soon is also a miracle!
 

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