********Tuesday Check In*********

jaypea

Cathlete
Hi,
I spend most of yesterday in my classroom, and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I sent my first week copies to be done, I have everything put away, so I just need to spend Wed. doing last minute things, and I should be good to go. Next week is inservice (M-T), so I don't want to be doing classroom stuff during that time.

There was one very rude thing that was said to me yesterday, though:mad:. My teacher friend, who is moving, is really good friends with the asst. principal. My DH was with me last week one day at school, and he met the asst. principal for a few minutes. Now, my DH is not the most talkative man, but he is a good person. Anyway, my friend told me yesterday that the asst. principal asked her what she thought of my DH. My friend claims she told the asst. principal that he is a nice person, and wanted to know why she asked that ?. The asst. principal stated that she thought DH was anti-social. Where does she get off saying those things? And, how rude was it for my so-called friend to tell me that? I just had to vent-I don't like rudeness or when people don't mind their own business:(.

On a brighter note, my DS, Andy, did so well at school. I was more anxious than he was by far! When I brought him in, the owner/director was there, and she greeted him with a big smile. He saw his toddler teacher, who gave him a huge hug, and he went right into his classroom, where his teacher was waiting to grab him and hug him. He went right to the toys and that was that. He said, "Bye, mom." He went pee 5 times there!!!:D I am so happy that he made a smooth transition there. He'll go back tomorrow.

Kate-I read this little article from this weekly e-mail I receive from the hospital where the baby will be born. Since you had shortness of breath, I thought you'd enjoy it. Also, it includes info on shaving too;).
Catching your breath
You're nearly there now; just a few more weeks and your baby will be in your arms. Is it all moving so fast that you feel out of breath? Actually, your uterus has grown so high now that your lungs have less room to expand. You may be short of breath from time to time until your baby's head moves down into your pelvis just before birth. If you feel short of breath, try moving a little more slowly, so your heart and lungs don't have to work so hard. Sleeping with your head, shoulders, and chest raised up will reduce heartburn and also help you to draw fuller breaths.

That growing uterus is also putting pressure on your bladder, sending you to the bathroom more often. In the last weeks of pregnancy, you may find that the urge to urinate wakes you several times at night. A nap or two during the day or early evening will help you get the rest you need.

No need to shave
If you are in the habit of shaving your pubic hair, or near it, it is recommended that you give it a break at this point until after your baby is born. If a cesarean section is required, or any other procedure that might require hair removal, the removal should be done at that time according to the hospital's policies and procedures. Other hair removal techniques can traumatize the skin and lead to infections.

Until next week, be well.


Today, I plan to hang out at home and clean for the P Chef show tomorrow and play with DS. I have about 6-10 people coming, so I hope I get lots of free stuff like you did, Kate and Melanie. I could really use some new stuff.

I have to catch up on yesterday's posts, so I will be back with more personals.

-Jen











Catching your breath
You're nearly there now; just a few more weeks and your baby will be in your arms. Is it all moving so fast that you feel out of breath? Actually, your uterus has grown so high now that your lungs have less room to expand. You may be short of breath from time to time until your baby's head moves down into your pelvis just before birth. If you feel short of breath, try moving a little more slowly, so your heart and lungs don't have to work so hard. Sleeping with your head, shoulders, and chest raised up will reduce heartburn and also help you to draw fuller breaths.

That growing uterus is also putting pressure on your bladder, sending you to the bathroom more often. In the last weeks of pregnancy, you may find that the urge to urinate wakes you several times at night. A nap or two during the day or early evening will help you get the rest you need.

No need to shave
If you are in the habit of shaving your pubic hair, or near it, it is recommended that you give it a break at this point until after your baby is born. If a cesarean section is required, or any other procedure that might require hair removal, the removal should be done at that time according to the hospital's policies and procedures. Other hair removal techniques can traumatize the skin and lead to infections.

Until next week, be well.
 
I'm back. I read through all the posts yesterday, and there were quite a few!:eek: Here I go...

I am 5', 1". Currently, I am 147 pounds:eek:. Usually I am 110-115 (non-pregnant).

Susan-I can't believe that your DDs teacher talked like that. I mean, come on!!!! In my reading courses, I learned that 3 years with an ineffective teacher can slow down learning progress, but one year sandwiched in between two effective teachers won't make a difference in learning progress. So, DD will not be affected! It's such a waste, though, for a child to have to spend a whole year of school with such a person. That would make me aggrevated too! Too cute on playing cooking with your DD, Pat;).

Candra-I hope registration goes well for you.

Stephanie-I can't wait to hear all about Oliver's first day of 1st grade. I am so excited to meet my kiddos:). I am sending them postcards today to let them know that I am excited to meet them. That sub was probably SO darn nervous that she didn't know what to do. I am sure that once the day got started everything smoothed out, and lightened up. I know that the first week, all we do it "get to know you" activities/games, getting to know the school/where things are, how to use classsroom supplies, etc.

Maggie-I wish you could teach with me b/c you seem like you would be so much fun! By the way, I don't have time to do any crafts either, and I have one child:).
Two of my friends, trained teachers, decided to home school their oldest children. They are both in preschool. One friend is going with the cyber charter school, and she received a free laptop to submit his assignments. I think the other friend is designing her own curriculum (like you do).

Kate-You made me laugh about your comment on the videos you saw lastnight:D.

Jen #2-Welcome back! Sounds like the RT was a lot of fun. I have to look for your picture. Sorry to hear about DH. The crazy hormones of pregnancy don't make it any easier to deal with. Maybe he wants to save his days for when the baby is born. As for the gifts, hopefully you got a lot of gift cards. That way, you can still get lots of things (that you like) and you won't have to lug them home. But, like Kate said, you are a Cathlete now, so if you do have to lug them home, you can do it;).

Lori-Oh yes, the dredded sick stomach feeling. It too will pass...Just take the advice from all the girls here and keep eating small amounts of food b/c when you let yourself get hungry, it's about a million times worse:(.

Lisa-Sounds like you are one busy mama:eek:. It's good to know that you are doing well with your pregnancy. Yeah on passing the glucose test.

Hi Autumn! How are you feeling?

Hello to everyone else!
-Jen
p.s. I amaze myself with the energy I have in the morning. I wrote two long novels already! What's up with that?
 
Wow Jen! You ARE a novelist today! Glad the school prep went well and DS’s school too! That’s great the potty went so well! And that is SPER rude about what was said about DH. Thanks for the breathing/pubic hair info. That was sweet of you to think of me! The last couple nights sleeping has been a little better actually! Thank goodness!

I had the MOST.REAL.DREAM. last night about having my baby. Most likely from all the videos we saw last night. It was so awesome. C’mon October!!!!
Today I think I’m taking the girls to the Pottery Barn Outlet to get a new dresser for them. Baby needs theirs. Looking forward to some serious retail therapy!

Hope everyone has a great day!
 
Good morning ladies :)
Thank you for the encouragement everyone. I really wanted my husband to travel with me, we barely see each other as it is. I guess now i'll choose a weekend he works so that i wont miss another three days off with him.
im sure i can lug the luggage, it just would have been nice to have some help!
im starting to feel like my pants are getting tight. I can never tell if its bloat or baby. I hit 12 weeks last wednesday so I guess im coming up on 13 but i think its too early to be showing yet.
Thank you everyone for the compliments - i know i dont look pregnant (yet) but i certainly dont have glowing skin ... in fact im wondering when that happens! I've had more breakouts now than i have had my whole life!!! And where are the growth of the you know whats? Ive been waiting my whole life for a pair...and still NOTHING :D

Sounds like everyone has been pretty busy, i hope you all are getting some much needed rest. Im still pooped but slept well and saw my husband for about 10 minutes this morning as he walked in and i was walking out. Better than the 3 minutes last nite I suppose!
 
Morning Preggos!
JenM-Sorry you are bummbed about traveling without dh!! Kate is right though, you are so much stronger than you think. Bring back all the gifts you can girl!
Kate-I don't eat fried foods, but dh LOVED the fried chicken. Its only like the 3rd time I have ever made it. It turned out really good. Glad you are sleeping a little better. DD has been getting up 2 or 3 times a night since shes been back. She got so used to sleeping with someone I guess. Sleeping has been are only real issue with dd over the years. lol on all the vaginas:eek: Have fun at PB..I am jealous!
Jen-How rude of your friend and asst principal. After 1 short meeting she can say that...how silly is that!!!! So glad your DS did well at school. Thanks for the teacher advice. I will make sure this year is better! We do live in a small Arkansas town, so 99% of the population speaks that way. Drives us nuts. We are working hard to get out of here. We are the same height and my ideal weight is about 112-115 also.
Maggie-you crack me up. You would fit right in here in Arkansas!
Hi LIsa, Stehpnie, Candra, Melanie, Morris, Kristin, Lori...and anyone I forgot.
 
JenM - It is NOT too early to show. Your uterus is growing and is pushing up all the stuff that WAS there and you ARE showing! yay! Maybe not ready for mat. clothes, but soon! The boobs may or may not come. I had quite a growth spurt early on but its tapered off. I got up to DD with Gina while nursing! Porn star! LOL! and the skin.....I've always been very fortunate so I can't help you there. I get *maybe* 4 zits a year. DH wishes he had my skin, I wish I had his metabolism!

Susan, I hope Haley gets her sleep back on track. I love my girls and an occasional night in bed together is okay, but I get tired of every night.


Well, I’m freakin’ out a bit at the moment. Never thought I’d say this but I’m afraid I’m not gaining ENOUGH weight! I have only gained 2# in the last 5.5 weeks. Midwife was having me keep a food journal. I go in 2 weeks for her to evaluate it. I see what’s written and feel like it’s enough but maybe it’s not??? This puts my total gain at 18#. 30 weeks pg, btw. That would put my total gain at 28 lbs. if I gain a pound a week from here on out but I'm clearly not gaining a pound a week, which is the recommended gain for this stage. Sounds like enough by what I'm reading in my journal/hunger cues but now I’m really concerned that I’m NOT eating enough to keep my nutrients up. Anyone care to chime in and ease my mind. I called DH right away and he said “Eat real food! All you eat is grains and salad!” Which isn’t totally true. I eat steak and chicken with my salads! So there!:p
 
Lisa, I saw your post from last night. No worries on no personals!:) It's a LOT to keep up on!:eek: Glad to hear things are going well. A Hawaiian bech sounds like pure bliss!!:D Good job getting your walk in - the weights will be ready for you when the pg is done!
 
Kate I cant offer any advice on the pregnancy. I've put on two pounds in the last three months, but the scale moves everyday and fluctutaes 1-2 pounds so i have no idea if i've gained anything..im certainly not starving myself :) If the doctor is ok with it you should be fine. I am sure the more experienced ladies will chime in.

i've never had major skin problems, just a zit here or there near period time so i'm not used to this.. i mean i dont look crazy or anything but im getting them more often than usual. Im just waiting for that glowing skin look!

Sigh about the boob growth...i've never had them and i guess i never will. i always read how you will grow a cup or two up but apparently i'm the only one who is like this haha. every book and magazine and website says you WILL not you wont...lol....tear....
 
Kate-how many calories are you taking in each day? And how many lbs did you gain with dd's. You could just have a very high metabolism and the calories you do eat are going towards building that baby girl.
JenM-my boobs got huge for my pregnancy. That was my first symptom and always my first symptom for pms..I guess thats my thing. My boobs are already wicked sore and swollen and I dont expect af til the 20th. Maybe youre just a late bloomer.
Im off ot workout! bbs
 
thanks for the support ladies. It just seems like at this stage of my pg I'd be gaining more weight. I don't want to deprive me or the baby of nutrients. I feel like if I ate more I'd be overeating. But at the same time I know you're supposed to eat 300 cals more per day than pre-preg and I KNOW I'm not doing that. Susan, I don't keep track of cals - I'd get too obsessive about it.

Susan, Whatcha sweatin' to today?

I'm headed down for MM UB.
 
Hi ladies. I didn't have time to read all of the above, but I wanted to pop in to say hello to everyone!! Hope everyone is having a good morning!!

I have to run take Henry to preschool (his first day of school ever)! And then I have to do errandmax. I'll be back later for personals!!
:)
 
Aw stephanie good luck to Henry at his first day of school! Wow..you guys start EARLY. Good for the parents, not so good for the kids. When i was growing up we went right after labor day.

Im jealous you other ladies get to stay home and workout. No fair! I should make myself do that tonite, after groceries. My body isnt tired, even after a live weekend with Cathe. Good luck with the workouts.

well susan..you just added to the normal category that you grow. i cant even grow during pregnancy. you called me a late bloomer haha :) That is cute. I'm 28! So...very late...
 
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Kate- I agree with Susan- how does your weight gain compare to your other kids? I gained a little less with this baby and actually lost weight in the last weeks and she was bigger than my other kids (9#,11oz).

Jen- rude comment from the asst principal. My husband HAtes making small talk; I think they all do.

Speaking of husbands, mine was supposed to have a biopsy of his mouth yesterday because he has the nasty habit of chewing tobacco since he was 13. He quit dipping (as we call it here) which has been difficult for him (he's on Chantix, which makes him nauseated) and the oral surgeon decided he didn't need the biopsy after all because his mouth looked so good. Hoping he can "stay quit"! The original visit with the oral surgeon was a wake-up call for husband to say the least.
 
Stephanie, Good luck to you and Henry! Is you preschool a Co-op? Ours is. I work 3-4x every 8 weeks. I enjoy it.

Jen, I found that travelmax made me more whooped than the actual RT! I think the adrenaline of the weekend keeps you going.

Kristan, YIKES on DH! :eek: Does it taste nasty to kiss him? Hope he keeps in the clear!

My DH hates chit-chat too. ;)

With Gina I was very unhealthy and gained over 50 pounds. With Isabel I started exercising and gained 28. So I guess I’m on track for that, but my midwife says she thinks 28 is too little for my activity level. Guess I’ll find out how (un)happy they are with my weight when I go back in 2 weeks. Dh will be with me and I know he’ll be on their side that I need to eat more. Can some of you come with me?!?! I need *somebody* in my corner!!;)

MMUB is done! Eating my protein-rich Clif Bar to refuel. That should make ‘em happy!
 
Kate-good job on the workout!! Did you workout this hard with your other preg? I did LIS from 4ds..short one today because dd is wanting me big time.
Kate I dont mind sleeping with dd. Thats the problem..she did not sleep all night until she was nearly 5 so I have slept with her plenty:D Before her trip she was doing so good. We would have to check on her every 5 min but she would fall asleep pretty quick. Since she has been back she has regressed! G
Kristin I wrote down the name of that drug for my dh. He is sooo trying to quit dipping...ewww grosss nasty!!!! good luck to dh!
Ok dd wants to look up dolls..bbl
 
Susan, I actually did mind-numbing Denise Austin and Kathy Smith preg dvds EVERY DAY when pg w/ Isabel!! How did I not lose my mind?!?!:eek: I think I just didn't know any better. I love 4DS LIS - so much fun! I can't imagine not sleeping thry the night that long? How did you do it, Saint Susan?! Hope YOUR DH can kick the dipping too. How do you ladies kiss your hubbies? Too cute on Haley looking up dolls!
 
Just thought I would say hi, I still have all of my company and they will be leaving tomorrow. I am exhausted after cooking for 11 people since Sat. We have been to Seaworld, the San antonio zoo and the riverwalk. I am exhausted. Inlaws, well I think its more draining than your own side of the family sometimes.
Kate-I was reading about your weight issues. I always lost weight the last 6 weeks with both of my pregnancies. I just didn't have the room for baby and food at the same time. Just make sure you are eating as much as you can of nutrient dense foods.
Jen-I think you hav eevery right to feel off about those comments about dh. I would too.
stephanie have fun with errandmax. Are you glad to have kids back in school?
Susan-how are your workouts progressing?
Jenm-I am glad you have glowing skin! I am usually just green for the 1st 12 weeks!
Kristan-Hows the little one?
Did Maggie have her baby yet?
Well, better go, they are looking for me. Hi to anybody I missed. Have a great day!
 
Morning girls!

Kate, I'm sure your body is gaining what it needs for the baby. When I was pg with Owen my friend was also pg and she only gained 11 pounds total. She is a very small girl to begin with. Not a very fun person to be pg with:) She is a runner and the doctor made her quit exercising and she drank milkshakes everyday. Her little boy was over 6 pounds and healthy. As long as your baby is growing is all that matters.

Susan, how much longer do we have to wait to know if you are pg?

JenM, my boobs never grew, they never even increased a cup size with nursing. I used to get (ignorant) comments all the time about starving my kids by breastfeeding with small boobs.

Jen, glad to hear Andy is doing well at school and going to the potty!

Kristan, my dh used to chew also. He quit 2 or 3 yrs ago and he still misses it. He was so grouchy when he did it too. I am glad I never have to go through that again.

Stephanie, is this Henry's first year of preschool? This is Owen's 2nd year he starts Mon and will go 3x a week.

Maggie, anything happening yet?

Well Wilson is officially registered at two schools. I think we decided to try the public school and see how it goes. Wilson really wants to go to that school b/c it is a science magnet school so he thinks he only is going to be learning science;) I really hope we are making the right decision:confused:

Today we have gymnastics and then I am taking the boys to get new school shoes. I need to go and get my workout in b/c I skipped yesterday. I am going to do the elliptical for about 40min.

Candra
 
Kate-I make dh brush throughly before kissing me...he knows not to come near me with a dip in...yuck! Its very addicting..more so than ciggs I have heard. I think nursing all night until the age of 3 is what really messed up Haley's sleep. I really don't know how I did it. I was tired alot!!! I figure too, one day she won't want me in her room much less in her bed, so Im not complaining too much. It would be nice to say.."ok time for bed" and that be it. We are working on it though. I dont see how you did Denise Austin...back when I started working out.I mean many years ago...I tried to get used to her but her off the beat, non cuing got on my very last nerve. She just seems kinda like a fitness joke to me...although many love her!

Hi Mikkia-my workouts are getting better and better. Still no barbell but I am upping my dumbells. I cant use a barbell for 6 more weeks. I am antsy to do some kickboxing..I think I'll try next week at my 6 week mark.
Maggie is scheculed for an induction on the 22....unless shes pushing right now????
Hi everyone!
Candra you snuck in on me! I can test next week!
 
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Hi Ladies!

Yes, I'm still here.

Drug dealer neighbors decided to skate board on their 10x10 foot patio at around 2am this morning:mad:. I can understand why. Yesterday as I was hanging up the laundry to dry, I could see them attempting this move through the slats of the fence. They are on the pudgy side, so it looked awkward and unflattering. I guess I'd want to practice in the dead of night as well......if it becomes a nightly habit, dh will go talk to them. They've been pretty quiet over all, so we try not to nit pick.

Dds 9 and 11 are all packed and ready to go to my labor. The hospital will allow them to be there as long as they stay in the room and don't wander the halls alone. I could not imagine letting them wander the halls alone, but seeing some of the folks in the waiting room of the ob office, I can see why they made this rule, not to be catty or anything. The girls have packed extra clothes, games, cheap costco mp3 player, art supplies, an old camara, and other sundries......I, on the other hand, am not prepared at all....

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JenM--You looked glowing in the pics I saw. I didn't see bad skin. I normally have really good skin, but with dd9, I broke out so badly that I had to buy over the counter products to help. It cleared up after about 20 weeks. I'm sorry you aren't getting to spend time with dh. One year, my dh who is an electrician, worked for a company and had to travel a lot. It was really rough. I hope, like someone else mentioned, that you get gift cards and certificates at your shower. Maybe you could discreetly plant a little bug in your mom's ear.

Kate--an induction can get bumped if the hospital is inundated with women who are going into labor naturally. This happened to me last time, and I went into labor naturally (which I would prefer) before my induction which was rescheduled for the next day. I want to start school on the day after Labor Day. If the baby is super late (like the last week of August) that doesn't leave me much time to recover before I start. I think the date night idea of induction is a really good one. I'm going to run it by dh--seriously;).

Lisa--don't sweat the personals. Sometimes there just isn't time for them and I would hate for anyone to feel obligated. You've got a lot going on right now and it's just nice for us to hear that all is well with you:).

Jen--how irksome of your assistant principal. She needs to look up the meaning of anti-social. It doesn't mean "not talkative", it actually is a nicer way of saying sociopath. But regardless of how she meant it, how rude.....my dh does the same thing and can come across as very taciturn and stern if he's not in the mood to talk and he is the kindest man I know. I'm glad school is going well for your son--that's a relief.

Susan--I would love to travel all over the country, just to listen to how people talk. I love accents and regional expressions. Oregon is just so boring in that regard. Really, I am normal most of the time....well, some of the time.

Stephanie--I hope your little guy has a great time at school! Let us know how it went.

Kristan--I think nicotine is the most addictive drug out there. I had a harder time quitting smoking (16 years ago) than I did getting clean and sober (18 years ago) and I know that's true for a lot of folks. I hope your dh can stay the course. The mouth cancer that can result from dipping is scary. I gained the least with my largest baby as well--50 lbs and he weighed 10lbs 7oz:eek:.

Mikki--do your in laws pitch in to help you cook and all that? I think they should. I would if it were me. I find extended family (both my own and dh's) difficult to deal with most of the time. I pray things are different for our children--tangent--I really hope you find some time to put your feet up. You certainly deserve it.

Candra--No, nothing is happening here. I'm going to take Kate's suggestion of planning a date night as a way of inducing labor;). Even frequent s*x is not really producing contractions:mad:. Go ahead and try the public school--the science magnet thing sounds really cool--if it really doesn't work out, you can always change course at some point in the future.

Hi Anne!, Hi Autumn!, Hi Lori!, Hi Morris!, Hi Melanie, Hi Trish!

Okay, I hear things stirring upstairs (we are really going to have to try to get on an earlier schedule before school starts). It's 8:35! Plus, I've written a dang novel.

Maggie:)
39 weeks, 1 day
 

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