><I didn't want to be pasty white in my sister's Bahamas
>wedding photos next week.>
>
>Why not? What is so wrong with being white, the skin you were
>born with in this case? Why do people feel so much pressure
>to be something they are not and risk everything just to look
>a "socially acceptable" way. No offense to Cathy, who I
>suspect is a beautiful "pasty" white. We all want the
>opposite of what we are it seems instead of embracing our own
>uniqueness and beauty (just ask Michael Jackson).
>
>In my opinion people can choose for themselves what they think
>is appropriate (including baking for 8 hours a day), but it
>would be nice to make such body altering and possibly life
>altering decisions without the pressure.
>Signed,
>Beavs aka "Pasty Whitey" who is now climbing off her soapbox
>and hopes she didn't offend anyone
Yes, some crazy people are trend-followers.. but I tan for the same reasons some of you may put on makeup, perfume or spend 20 mintues on your hair.. or lift heavy weights to gain muscle after you've already reached a healthy weight.. because I like the way it looks.
I have long dreadlocks and would never be caught dead in a skirt, even though I have been told time and time again that I would be so beautiful with long naural hair and in a dress with heels. Looking beautiful by "society" standards is not my style.. although.. I certainly do not go out of my way to look wierd or anything, that's not my style either lol. I guess Im just.. "unconventional"

I only bring it up because I know there is a stereotype that often goes along with poeple that tan and do other extreem trends etc and I didn't want to seem shallow or anything for talking about my tanning experiences to anyone that doesn't know me better

As for non UV tanning, there is a product called TANTOWEL (by the same company) and they are little towelettes that have tanner on them. The work pretty good for an average medium tan. Run about $2 each-- but don't use the PLUS ones unless you're alrwady pretty tan--they're a bit extreem!