Hi Lisa,
The best advice I can give you is you have to eat as natural as you possibly can. Fresh fruits and vegies, if you have to, white meat only, seafood (certain fish without mercury), no white flour, or sugar, and very little salt. I found avocado ,nuts and flaxseed to be your best bet for fat intake. Watch your calory intake and do Cathe's Jan-March weight loss rotations. There is no pills or magic remedy for loosing weight, just plane hard work. Eventually, you will come to love the taste of your natural foods and your creativity with them, and enjoy your workouts as well. Don't let people fool you, if you take in more calories, than your body can assimulate, you will gain weight.
Remember, the more processed the food is, the more likely it has chemicals in it that hurts your body, and/not good for you. The food industry have to put chemicals in the processed food to preserve it. As you gain control over processed food, you will realize that you have more energy, strength, remembering better, and your skin (ichiness or otherwise) will go away. And you sleep better at night.
NOTE: Even the oils such as olive oil, cornoil, canola oil, are processed. Don't use them. If you have to, use canola oil spray for just a second to prevent sticking on your pans.
We haven't evolved enough yet to just sit around and indulge in any food we would like to eat or eat as much as we can without consequences. Our foods we eat today, are not good for human consumption. I'm not saying you can't eat this food, because since we live in this time frame you have to make exceptions, so you can feel like you are among the living. Just eat it in moderation.
Oh boy, I'm rattling, sorry about that. Please take care of yourself as best as you can.
Sincerely,
Janie