Sandra - Fiddlefit

kristi

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Hi Sandra!

How is your pregnancy going so far? Are you having much morning sickness? I was wondering since we are due so close together and have had one child before if you are starting to show yet. I've gained 5 1/2 pounds so far, I wish it were less, and my belly is starting to pooch out already. At the rate I'm going I might have to start wearing maternity stuff by the end of the first trimester since my pants are so uncomfortable now. I find this to be odd since I did not begin wearing maternity stuff the first time until 22 weeks.

Take care!
 
kristi,

obviously i'm not sandra. sorry to butt into your thread but it's funny i was just about the post something regarding weight gain with the second pregnancy. i too have gained about 5-6lbs already...i can't believe it. i had to go buy bigger clothes already because already i can't stand anything too tight around my belly. i am sure i will be in maternity clothes much, much earlier than with my first...:(
 
Sunnydelite, I'm glad you posted! I'm happy to hear that I'm not the only one experiencing this. It just seems weird to me to be thinking about wearing my maternity stuff so early and seeing my belly start pooching. I think I read somewhere that it isn't the baby causing the pooching this early but something to do with your bowels extending getting ready for the baby to grow more. I hope I got that right. Thanks again for posting!!
 
kristi,

i also read it's because your body already knows what to do. the first time our bodies wasn't used to be so stretched out so it kinda resisted. now it does know what do to so it just goes with the flow...i am just happy to hear i am not the only one. i was getting a little worried.
 
Not Sandra either but I'm due with baby #2 also. I haven't gained any weight yet but my stomach looks so puffy and my jeans feel tight in the waist. I know that I'll be in maternity earlier this time around as well. Oh well, they are making some cute clothes.
 
LOL..I'm right there with ya's..I gained 8 pounds so far and had to buy a new pair of pants to get me throught the first trimester....good to know I'm not alone. :D
 
You all are brightening my day! :) I'm really looking forward to wearing the maternity clothes, but I don't want to wear them too early because by the end of this pregnancy I'll be so sick of wearing the same stuff over and over again. I bought a few new summer dresses from motherhood on sale so my maternity collection is nice sized as it is. However I don't want to buy any more clothes because this one will be the last one for me. It will be nice to look pregnant earlier with this one. It took a while with DS for me to show.

Have a great day!
 
Hi Kristi! How wonderful to have a post just for me! (LOLing at all the "imposters" who replied ;-) What a great forum!

I'm on the verge of walking out the door to my first dr's appt, so I will come back later today and give some more detailed chat.

Yes, I have gained weight, without a doubt!! I'm sure the doc will be weighing me today, so I'll let you know how it goes!

Cheers!
Sandra
 
Ooh Sandra, the first doctor's apptmnt of pregnacy...exciting isn't it? I was never happier to go see a doctor in my life!!! lol Be sure to let us know how it went!

I was at the doc today myself for the glucose test. THICK FLAT 7-UP is what that nasty stuff they gave me to drink tastes like--EEWWW! I go back in month for yet ANOTHER check up! :+


Have a great work out!

~Wendy~

I smoked my last cigarette on March 17, 2004 at 10:00 pm!

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Okay, I'm back! I just spend 2 1/2 hours in the "outside world", having to be all focused and normal, and it has worn me out! KickMax this morning and all those leg drills probably are partially at fault, too :)

Oh yes, Kristi, I've gained between 5-7 pounds so far! Two weeks past conception I weighed myself in the morning, unclothed, right after my workout (before eating), and was 136.0lbs. About 6 weeks later, late-morning after eating 2 breakfasts (!), and fully-clothed, I weighed 145lbs!! I don't look fat or pregnant, but more voluptuous. Prepregnancy I was very lean looking: thin hips, firm torso, small chest. I am now hippier, with a plump belly, and actual, bonafide BOOBS!!! I like the boobs! I no longer even attempt to wear my usual size 6 pants, but live in my vast array of sweat pants. The only pair of jeans I wear are my size 8 "relaxed" fit. I will be moving into maternity wear faster than Wonder Woman ever twirled into her costume.

I've been reading James Clapp's book "Exercising Through Your Pregnancy", and if you want a positive perspective on your early weight gain, it's a great read. First trimester weight gain is maternal weight gain, but it's all very necessary and healthy, particularly if you are exercising. I personally found that recent books such as "What to Expect.." make it appear that the first trimester maternal weight gain is due to poor weight/eating management on the part of the mother, and guilt must be placed on those who gain more than 3 pounds. That never fit right with me. I'm glad to find a book by an actual researcher/expert in the field who discusses quite cogently how necessary it is for the pregnant woman to gather her fat stores. You are doing your baby a favour by gaining some weight this early.

I've been feeling nauseas if my stomach gets empty. The key to feeling decent, for me, is to eat frequently. For a couple of weeks my appetite has been voracious, to say the least. I start off the day eating constantly, then it tapers off over the afternoon, and by suppertime I don't want another bite to eat until the next morning. I think my morning exercise is really stimulating my appetite. I've had to start drinking a smoothie first thing in the morning, to give me the stamina to make it through my workouts. It's working very well!

I have a very healthy appetite, but not for anything raw! Fruits & veggies are just ugh to me right now, unless they're mixed into a casserole and a sauce. And the sauce *cannot* be sweet! Sweet stuff, unless it's fat-based like chocolate, just isn't appealing to me one bit. I want protein, protein, protein! And bread! Love the bread! My favourite food these days is some kind of hot sandwich. It's the dead of winter in northern Canada, so hot is always good! I don't remember the last time I ate beef so frequently, though.

The doctor visit was interesting. She's sending me for an ultrasound on Tuesday, to confirm the baby's age, and because she just wants to see how things are going. Since I miscarried my last pregnancy, she's concerned about fetal viability at this point, I think. I've continued to take my basal temp, and it's been within a very tight, high range for weeks, so as long as that continues, I'll not worry too much (it's hard, though!). I also have to go for blood tests tomorrow.

Wendy, the first dr appt for the first baby is exciting, for sure!!! But this is my third time through it, and the novelty wore off long ago, unfortunately. I look at them now as just a time-consuming pain in the butt. I'm definitely not looking forward to the ultrasound on Tuesday. I've had so many of them, I'm tired of the process. Sure, hearing the heartbeat is a hoot, but that novelty has worn off by now too. Aren't I just the jaded cynic? With my miscarried pregnancy I had an ultrasound within a day or two of the baby dying. We got all excited about hearing the heartbeat, and then the baby died :-( I know there's no connection between the two events, but part of me just wished they would leave me alone; the less interference the better! The doc did my pap smear today, and that stressed me out - leave my cervix alone! Don't tinker with it! I guess I'm still feeling very fragile. I will be sooo relieved to get through the first trimester (please, please).

That glucose stuff is pretty wicked, isn't it Wendy? With baby#1 mine was orange flavoured, which sounds a bit better than 7-up. I hope you have good insulin response!

The doctor is probably going to monitor me quite closely near the end of the pregnancy (more ultrasounds, ugh!!). My first baby was 2 weeks early, weighed 9lbs 9oz (a girl!), and got her shoulder caught in my pelvis on the way out. Getting her unstuck was an emergency procedure that resulted in some radical damage to my pelvic muscles, and giving me stress incontinence that hasn't improved much from kegelling. I mentioned this to the doc today, and she told me that, essentially, the damage was beyond the scope of kegelling to repair, that it was likely going to be worse after this baby, and I will probably need bladder surgery down the road. Great. I'm putting that in the baby-book LOL!! The phrase "bladder prolapse" was used, but I'm not sure whether she was saying I *had* that now, or that I was likely to end up with it down the road. I'll bet all you first time moms are really excited to read this, hey? On the plus side, um........I can't think of one. Sorry. Do your kegels, and hope your baby doesn't get stuck on the way out!

Well Kristi, I'm not sure if I've given you waaaaaaay too much information, but here it all is :) Please share more details with me about your own pregnancy. How old is your first son? Are you feeling really sick? How's the fatigue (I'm exhausted most of the time, and in bed by 8pm every night)? Do you have any bladder-related souvenirs from your first baby? I'm looking forward to shopping for mat clothes this time around. I like the pants they've come out with in recent years, with the hidden belly patches. They don't look maternity at all!

Oh yeah, doc said that because I'll be 35 when baby is born, I could have an amnio. I told her no. How about you? I'm not sure how old you are?

Cheers!
Sandra
 
Sandra,

I get where you are coming from...I'm sure when it comes time to do this again for #2, I will feel about the doc apptmts like you do coz it'll be "old hat" by then.

Have a great work out!

~Wendy~

I smoked my last cigarette on March 17, 2004 at 10:00 pm!

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Hi Sandra! That first appointment can be grueling in the aspect that it takes so long and for me I have to go to the doctor on my lunch hour and then rush back to work. I think mine lasted 2 hours, but the next ones should be much shorter.

"I will be moving into maternity wear faster than Wonder Woman ever twirled into her costume." ROTFLMAO It is a good thing I wasn't drinking anything because I would have spit it onto my monitor from laughing so hard. The people at my work were looking at me funny when I started laughing. If only I could wear sweatpants to work. I would love it. I guess I'll have to stick to wearing them at home at night and on the weekends.

A couple of months ago I thought of ordering James Clapp's book. I think I might need to pick it up now since you gave it such a great review. It is nice to know that our weight gain especially during the first trimester isn't always due to poor nutrition. That is very refreshing to hear, even though I have been eating not so great lately. I have to eat throughout the day too, normally 5 times a day or else I feel a little nauseous, but not enough for me to officially consider it morning sickness. I'm glad your smoothie is working for you and your morning workouts. My workouts have been sporadic since I am always so tired. However I've been trying to walk on my treadmill even if it is for 20 minutes at a time. Hopefully once the first trimester is over my energy will come back and I will be able to tackle more.

"The doc did my pap smear today, and that stressed me out - leave my cervix alone!" And I thought I was the only one who felt that way. Actually my dr didn't do one this time around since I was just in there this past July and she said waiting a couple more months won't make a difference. I was just glad she didn't have to do it.

Oh my, you had a big baby girl and 2 weeks early to boot. Just thinking about unlodging a shoulder from my pelvis makes me cringe. The joys of pregnancy. That is awful that you may need bladder surgery.

I'm very lucky that my labor & delivery was very, well, easy. I had some great drugs to keep the pain at bay. The only time I felt pain was when I was pushing DS out and I heard and felt my hip pop. After that I knew I had to get down to business and push him out because then I felt some pain.

DS will be 3 in June, and if we were never able to have another child but him then we could live with that decision. He has truly blessed our lives in ways I never could have imagined. Another baby will only add more joy. Right now there really isn't much to report with this pregnancy. My nausea is minimal and I eat small meals to keep that at bay. The only think that gets me is the fatigue, but it may also be triggered by the gloomy weather we have been experiencing. Will spring ever get here?

Well, I need to get back to work. I'm really glad your appointment went well.
 
>Hi Sandra! That first appointment can be grueling in the
>aspect that it takes so long and for me I have to go to the
>doctor on my lunch hour and then rush back to work. I think
>mine lasted 2 hours, but the next ones should be much shorter.
>

Good grief! Really?? Two Hours?? What does the doctor do in all that time? I think my appointment took 20 minutes at most, although I spent a good 15 minutes in the waiting room. The nurse asked me a few questions, then the doctor came in and asked me more, then came back and did my pap smear, then we chatted a bit more, then I was done. I had to wait a few more minutes while the nurse booked my ultrasound and filled out the forms for my blood tests, then I had to book my next appointment, and I was out the door. I took myself out to lunch right after, then ran a couple of errands. So, that's how it took me 2 1/2 hours. I'm so curious about how your doctor filled 2 hours?? What did I miss?

>"I will be moving into maternity wear faster than Wonder Woman
>ever twirled into her costume." ROTFLMAO It is a good
>thing I wasn't drinking anything because I would have spit it
>onto my monitor from laughing so hard. The people at my work
>were looking at me funny when I started laughing. If only I
>could wear sweatpants to work. I would love it. I guess I'll
>have to stick to wearing them at home at night and on the
>weekends.

Glad to give you a good laugh :) Yes, my job is contract research work that I can do at home, for the most part. I have occasional meetings, but I have some non-waisted dresses that will suit the bill for the short term.

>A couple of months ago I thought of ordering James Clapp's
>book. I think I might need to pick it up now since you gave
>it such a great review. It is nice to know that our weight
>gain especially during the first trimester isn't always due to
>poor nutrition. That is very refreshing to hear, even though
>I have been eating not so great lately.

I'm glad I found it at the library. I was unable to buy it new, because it seems to be out of print, at least in Canada. It's made me feel much better about my exercise, and how my body is changing. If you pick it up, let me know how you like it. They even have a photo of a very pregnant woman doing high-impact step aerobics. You can't see the tv, but I like to think she's doing one of Cathe's :)

I have to eat
>throughout the day too, normally 5 times a day or else I feel
>a little nauseous, but not enough for me to officially
>consider it morning sickness. I'm glad your smoothie is
>working for you and your morning workouts. My workouts have
>been sporadic since I am always so tired. However I've been
>trying to walk on my treadmill even if it is for 20 minutes at
>a time. Hopefully once the first trimester is over my energy
>will come back and I will be able to tackle more.

Yes, hopefully you'll get some more energy in a few weeks. We can only do the best that we can, and no more, right? At least you are attempting to do something, but are smart enough to be staying within comfortable limits.

>Oh my, you had a big baby girl and 2 weeks early to boot.
>Just thinking about unlodging a shoulder from my pelvis makes
>me cringe.

The crazy thing is that I was unmedicated during the birth, but even so I was concentrating so hard on the final few pushes that I didn't even notice when a full-grown woman straddled my stomach, and pushed the baby down! My eyes were closed, so all I remember is hearing the doctor suddenly yell "Get another nurse in here QUICK!!!", then a vague awareness of the room erupting into activity, and then a bizarre feeling (had no idea what it was at the time) of the doctor inserting all of her fingers inside the birth canal and pulling the baby out. That's when I tore, and I know it hurt beyond belief, but my brain immediately shut out the pain. I have no memory of the pain, just of letting out a very, very large howl. It all happened within about 15 seconds, and I had no idea what was going on until it was done and I laid back, opened my eyes, and (getting very graphic) saw blood on the ceiling. I couldn't believe that came from me, but it did! Rather horrendous when I describe it verbally, but really it was so fast that I can't say it really traumatized me that much. I'm still wanting to have this baby without medication, if my doula is able to help me manage the process as well as she did last time. We were very fortunate that the baby didn't suffer any injury in the process.

>
>I'm very lucky that my labor & delivery was very, well, easy.
>I had some great drugs to keep the pain at bay. The only time
>I felt pain was when I was pushing DS out and I heard and felt
>my hip pop. After that I knew I had to get down to business
>and push him out because then I felt some pain.

Oh dear! Did your hip come out of its socket or something? That sounds awful! I have a friend who broke her tailbone during delivery - OUCH!!!

>DS will be 3 in June, and if we were never able to have
>another child but him then we could live with that decision.
>He has truly blessed our lives in ways I never could have
>imagined. Another baby will only add more joy.

I feel the exact same way! I think I was able to deal with the miscarriage much better because we already had our amazing first daughter.

Right now
>there really isn't much to report with this pregnancy. My
>nausea is minimal and I eat small meals to keep that at bay.
>The only think that gets me is the fatigue, but it may also be
>triggered by the gloomy weather we have been experiencing.
>Will spring ever get here?

Tell me about it!! I'm looking forward to nice weather for walking.

>Well, I need to get back to work. I'm really glad your
>appointment went well.

Thanks!
Sandra
 
i'm just popping in to say that i have officially read your doctor's office visit report. very exciting! now the sonogram.....(i have never given birth, so excuse by ignorance)that let's you hear the heartbeat right? is an amnio what is able to tell the sex of the baby? are you going to find out if you are having a boy or girl, or do you like suprises?

your labor story sounds horrific! did you plan to have no drugs, or did you wait too long to get them? you women who have or will soon give birth are so brave! very selfless. you know someone who broke her tailbone durring labor? how did that happen? that's awful.

back to happier thoughts......you never told me how the curtains your mom made for the nursery came out! what do they look like?

bread and meat, sounds scrumtous!

jes:D
 
I guess I overexaggerated about the appointment being 2 hours. It was probably more like 1 1/2 hours if you include the 30 minute waiting time, but 2 if you include my travel time back to work. My appointment was at 1 but I waited 1/2 hour before they took me back. About half of the doctor appointment was spent with the nurse confirming my history and getting the proper chart paperwork in order to monitor the progress of this pregnancy. Once she was through my doctor came in and asked how things were going, looked at the chart, answered any questions, and then left to get a nurse and get the ultrasound machine. She then came back and did an ultrasound to confirm how far along I am. Then after I got dressed she came back to talk with me a little more. Afterwards I had to schedule my appointment and finally got to leave. The first appointment with my doctor is always the longest. In a couple of weeks when I go back it should go alot quicker after I actually make it back to the examination room.
 

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