Hi Dream,
Honeybunch is right, there is really only 1 way to know if your eating is "on track" or the culprit of your plateau, and that is to write down everything you eat and drink. So many people I've known had no idea how many calories they were consuming daily in liquid form until they wrote them down. Every soda or juice is easily 100+ calories, and if you're downing a 20oz. bottle, 300+ calories. Also, writing it down keeps you from mindless snacking, or at least makes you aware of it. I was shocked the first day I began journaling my food intake. I saw that on a routine basis I was easily consuming 3000-4000 calories/day, and I was a person that would say, "...but I really don't eat that much!" Until I put it in black and white, I had no clue!
Also, take it from someone who in past years tried EVERYTHING but exercise and healthy eating to lose weight, there really is no "magic" formula, and anything that will work, will only work temporarily, and your weight will only come back.
The only real answer is the one no one wants to hear, and that's that you have to monitor what you eat, striving to eat healthfully, and exercise on some sort of a consistent basis. How frequently you are able to exercise, and depending on the intensity, etc. will determine how many calories/day you can eat and still lose weight, but I've been tweeking and reworking calories and rotations for just over a year now, and although some weeks/months were better than others, I can tell you from experience that the only real answer is: exercise and healthy eating. I refuse to use the word diet because people get the wrong idea. I eat healthfully 80% of the time, and not so healthfully 20% of the time (addicted to McDonalds and Ben & Jerry's)

but I exercise daily in order to continue to lose weight at a steady rate. So far, I've lost a total of 191 lbs. in just 13 months, and the only "magic" has been the support from this forum when I feel like you in the beginning of this post, "fat, fat, fat."
I don't know how much you feel you need to lose, but don't be too hard on yourself, start with writing down everything you eat and drink and analyze where you need to make changes. Also, if you don't already do it, increase your water intake. Water helps your body flush waste, fat and other toxins, and as a bonus, fills you up with 0 calories!

If you are at all interested in some exercise rotations I have done that were "more successful" at burning fat/busting through a plateau, please email me and I'd be happy to send them to you.
Sorry so long winded,
Donna