delfin
Cathlete
My DH and I are going out to dinner tonight w/a friend who is very obese. She's also getting to be a women of a certain age, as they say, and has had some persistent knee problems. Well, in the past, we could never take our SUV when we picked her up because she literally couldn't get in the car... so we had to take the VW. Now she's gotten one of those elevator-type contraptions that attach to the stairwell and take you up and down the stairs. Here's my issue. As I've gotten more and more into fitness, I'm becoming more and more frustrated with my friend. I want to scream... take the stairs! Burn some calories! Lose that weight cuz it's going to kill you! (BTW my half-sister, who was also morbidly obese, died at age 50 from heart failure, which I'm convinced was brought on by the excess weight). I'm biting my tongue cuz I don't want to hurt her feelings... but I don't want to see her become ill, and maybe worse, because of her obesity. Do I have any choice but to keep my mouth shut???? Thanks for any advice, catheites!!