bjbowers
Cathlete
I have a problem with 2 people that I cannot let go of...
6 1/2 years ago, my brother was killed in a construction "accident." Right before it happened, he was telling me how badly he wanted to quit because the working conditions were unsafe. He told me that he told his boss, who was one of his best friends, that he needed to make changes or he was gone. The boss agreed. Yeah right, this happened, and then to save his own a$$ he lied about the working conditions to L&I and the police and fire departments. $1000 fine and he was on his way.
What I wanted from to see happen was his business SHUT DOWN, an apology maybe??? Instead, he sent his lawyer to tell my family and that's about it. Over the years when I see him, he turns and walks the other way. Last night I went out with 2 of my girlfriends for girls night out. We ran into him and his hoochie girlfriend. Whenever I see him I feel like my heart is going to pop right out of my chest. His girlfriend gave ME dirty looks all night, and he just hid his face. I caught him whispering to 4 different people and they were not discreet at all. I wouldn't leave though, because I didn't want to make him feel better. You know?
Anyway, I want so badly to get this all off my chest to him, to tell him what a coward I think he is. I know he didn't WANT this to happen, but as the years go by I get angrier with this person. AND his girlfriend. what did I do? aaarrrrgggghhh, I want to talk with my mom about it, because that's who I talk to about everything. But if I mention him, she will get sad. What should I do? Confront him or find a way to let it go...maybe I won't be able to let it go until I do. But I am afraid I won't get it all out. I wrote him a letter once, and the words just poured out. Kind of like now. If anyone is still reading this, thank you for that.
6 1/2 years ago, my brother was killed in a construction "accident." Right before it happened, he was telling me how badly he wanted to quit because the working conditions were unsafe. He told me that he told his boss, who was one of his best friends, that he needed to make changes or he was gone. The boss agreed. Yeah right, this happened, and then to save his own a$$ he lied about the working conditions to L&I and the police and fire departments. $1000 fine and he was on his way.
What I wanted from to see happen was his business SHUT DOWN, an apology maybe??? Instead, he sent his lawyer to tell my family and that's about it. Over the years when I see him, he turns and walks the other way. Last night I went out with 2 of my girlfriends for girls night out. We ran into him and his hoochie girlfriend. Whenever I see him I feel like my heart is going to pop right out of my chest. His girlfriend gave ME dirty looks all night, and he just hid his face. I caught him whispering to 4 different people and they were not discreet at all. I wouldn't leave though, because I didn't want to make him feel better. You know?
Anyway, I want so badly to get this all off my chest to him, to tell him what a coward I think he is. I know he didn't WANT this to happen, but as the years go by I get angrier with this person. AND his girlfriend. what did I do? aaarrrrgggghhh, I want to talk with my mom about it, because that's who I talk to about everything. But if I mention him, she will get sad. What should I do? Confront him or find a way to let it go...maybe I won't be able to let it go until I do. But I am afraid I won't get it all out. I wrote him a letter once, and the words just poured out. Kind of like now. If anyone is still reading this, thank you for that.
