Hi Donna aka gettnfit@39,
I am really proud of you for taking this woman under your wing and becoming a mentor to her, and the fact that you did not lower yourself to her standard,in the way of response to her disgusting email,proves you are the better man/woman so to speak.
I can empathise with you being upset, you may even be struggling not to respond negatively as you may feel that she has had the last word, but as I said before it is about not lowering yourself to her level, as you are the better woman.
Donna you know you will get past this in time, because you are much stronger than you think, and anyway, what is a NIGGER? (ok a supposedly derogatory expletive for a black person) well Im sorry!! I'm black but I dont identify myself with that.
I have also been called names in the past,someone even told me that if I was in africa now he would have me flogged,and that was hurtful at the time, but now I refuse to identify myself with any racist term, I distance my self from it, because I am bigger than that, and according to my GOD, ALL MEN ARE CREATED EQUAL, in his sight whether jew or gentile. We all come up short, but its the hearts of men that are important not the colour.
And if this is really what is in the heart of this woman, then you are well rid of her, as you dont need her to make you feel bad.
Thank god for some of the genuine hearts on this forum.
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP
Luv Hotchick:+
I am really proud of you for taking this woman under your wing and becoming a mentor to her, and the fact that you did not lower yourself to her standard,in the way of response to her disgusting email,proves you are the better man/woman so to speak.
I can empathise with you being upset, you may even be struggling not to respond negatively as you may feel that she has had the last word, but as I said before it is about not lowering yourself to her level, as you are the better woman.
Donna you know you will get past this in time, because you are much stronger than you think, and anyway, what is a NIGGER? (ok a supposedly derogatory expletive for a black person) well Im sorry!! I'm black but I dont identify myself with that.
I have also been called names in the past,someone even told me that if I was in africa now he would have me flogged,and that was hurtful at the time, but now I refuse to identify myself with any racist term, I distance my self from it, because I am bigger than that, and according to my GOD, ALL MEN ARE CREATED EQUAL, in his sight whether jew or gentile. We all come up short, but its the hearts of men that are important not the colour.
And if this is really what is in the heart of this woman, then you are well rid of her, as you dont need her to make you feel bad.
Thank god for some of the genuine hearts on this forum.
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP
Luv Hotchick:+