Jacob Adam was born 9/13/04 - LONG!

StaceyDeLapp

Cathlete
I went into labor on Monday, September 13th. I was fairly certain that I was in labor that morning as I left for the post office run that I had to make for my business that day. By the time we were leaving Seattle, I was having pretty regular contractions, but just 3-4 per hour. That's how my labor began previously with my first 2, but we were scheduled to take the kids to the Puyallup fair, so I thought I'd just watch and see. We got to the fair around 11:00 and I was still having regular contractions. Even when I was changing positions, I was still having them and I was just hurting (in my legs) a lot more than I'm used to, so around 1:00 or 1:30 I started timing them. They were coming about every 6 minutes. I wasn't having any pain yet, so I told my husband that the kids could go on a few more rides and then it would be time to go. We left around 3:30 and by this time, my contractions were every 4-5 minutes and they were starting to hurt. By the time we got to the hospital, my contractions were getting very painful. This labor was more like my first. It hurt the whole time, whereas with my daughter, just the last hour was horrible. When we got checked in upstairs, I started asking for something to help with the pain right away. They gave me Fentinal (sp?) about 45 minutes after we checked in. I was at a 4 at 5:00 p.m. The Fentinal helped quite a bit as it took the edge off, but I was still in pain and waiting for an epidural. At least while I was waiting I felt like I was in much more control. My dr. was called, but since it was after 5:00 p.m., I had to have the on-call dr. Out of 3 kids, I have never once gotten to have my ob deliver my baby. I was even more upset that my OB wasn't theire after my mom came into the room and didn't like the dr. who was filling in for my dr. (My mom works at the hospital in the OR and has worked with this dr. before) The dr. checked me and in 30 minutes I had gone from a 4 to an 6. She said let's break her water to get these contractions to speed up. I didn't mind her breaking my water, but my babies heart beat had been high - 185 bpm which was a concern. I felt that my labor was already going extremely fast. 30 minutes later, she checked me again and I was at an 8. She recommened pitocin to speed up the contractions. I was against this as my contractions were coming every minute and a half and were lasting for a minute or longer. The belt had slipped up and she couldn't see how strong my contractions were. She decided to wait on the pitocin. As soon as she walked away, the nurse started getting really concerned because she could no longer find my babies heart beat. They tried to find it on his scalp, but when it was at 60 bpm, I was rushed in for an emergency c-section. I cried the whole way to the operating room. I was so worried about my baby. When he was born, he need to be rushed to ICU and put on oxygen and an IV. (My placenta abrupted after my water was broke and somehow, even though my bags were intact up until 30 minutes before he came out - he was delivered at 6:52 p.m., my amniotic fluid got an infection in it.) I was so sad to go up to my recovery room and not have my baby with me. This was Monday and they were estimating a 3-day stay in the ICU. I got my first glimpse of him from the doorway of the ICU (I was still in a hospital bed) that night. He looked so small and helpless. (He was 6 lbs 8 oz and 20 inches long so small to me, but still a good size.) My pediatrician came by the next morning and told me that Jacob looked great and that maybe he would be out by the next day. I was thrilled. He was being weaned from the oxygen at this point, so I still wasn't able to nurse. I noticed that his eyes seemed glued shut and asked for something to clean them with. When I was cleaning them, there was a yellow discharge that kept coming out of this eyes. I was concerned and told the nurse. The next day, he was off the oxygen, but still needing his IV so he had to stay in the ICU. I was able to nurse him a few times. His eye discharge was not any better and they did a culture to send to the lab. That night, I came in for my 11:00 p.m. feeding and was told that I could not nurse him because his breathing was getting very rapid again and that meant his body was stressed out trying to breathe and digest at the same time. They wanted to keep him off the oxygen or that would increase his stay. I was very upset. The next a.m. I went to check on him and was so happy to see that he was not on the oxygen, but that joy was short lived when they told me that his eye culture came back with a bacteria called (I'm going to spell this the way it's pronounced, not proper spelling) hamafullis. This is a nasty bacteria, and when a baby gets an infection, it can move throughout their bodies. If it went to his lungs, he would have pneumonia. If it went to his spine, meningitis. If it went to his brain...I don't know, we didn't go there, and thankfully, after doing the blood culture (and watching it for growth for 3-days) they discovered it to be isolated to his eyes only. They had said if that was the case, they would only keep him for an additional 3-4 days of treatment, but they had done 3 other tests to check for infection - white blood cells (looked good), red blood cells (looked good) and some sort of "c" test (don't remember full name of it) that was very high. Normal newborn is less than 1 and his was above 9, so with this being the case, they took the safe route and opted for a 10-day course of antibiotics. Then my incision ended up getting infected and I needed to start antibiotics. I was not allowed into the ICU until I had been on antibiotics for 24-hours. I was so upset. At this point, I was finding out bad news every single day. I was so afraid each day I headed for that nursery (I was discharged on Thursday and commuting back and forth to the hospital.) This past week, though, everything just keeps getting better. He is eating, gaining weight, his eyes are totally better. He looks so healthy, and I get to bring him home on Saturday at 8:00 p.m. We can't wait. My other 2 children don't understand why he can't be home with us. They are so thrilled whenever they get to go see their brother. My daughter is especially sweet with him. I told the nurse that I was worried to bring him home after all of this, but she said he will be just as hardy as other babies, and that he got off to a rough start is all. He's a beautiful baby, and if I figure out how, I will post some pictures later on.

Oh...I almost forgot. I slipped on my stairs at 2:00 a.m. this morning when I was coming downstairs to pump (it would be SO much easier to get up for my baby than for a silly pump!) and I ended up bruising my pinky toe so much that I'm afraid I won't be able to get shoes on today. Can you believe the luck I've been having?

I am counting the days until my baby comes home.

Take care everyone.
Stacey
 
Oh Stacey! I'm in tears reading your birthing story! You've been through sooooo much. I just said a prayer for you & your little bitsy baby. I'm sure he's just beautiful. :) Thanks for sharing your story. BTW, when was/is your due date? and PS, with a C-section you are suppose to limit/eliminate stairs for at least 2 weeks (okay, i"ll stop nagging).
Congrats on your new baby! Let us know when he comes home so we can celebrate with you again!!!

**Melanie**
Justin born 1/17/04
Jory born 4/9/94

" Take care of your body like it will last a lifetime. Take care of your soul like it will last for eternity"
 
Stacy, Bless your heart. As if being hormonal and dealing with the aftershocks of delivery. I know how emotional and hard it can be to NOT have the baby in the recovery room with you. My little guy (born 7/9/04) was taken immediately after delivery to the Special Care Nursery and put in the oxygen tent b/c he still had amniotic fluid in his lungs. I had not experienced this with my daughter. He stayed in that nursery the entire time I was in the hospital and an extra night. I cried most of the time I was there b/c I wanted to hold him and nurse him. Hang in there, it will get better!! Please let us know when the little guy comes home. Good luck and Congratulations!!

Jessi:)
Grace born 2/21/01
Jack born 7/9/04
 
Congratulations Stacey! I'm sorry that you had such a rough time, but pretty soon Jacob will be home with his sisters and everything will be just fine.

I had an abruption with one of my sons and he had a difficult start also. It was very scary and we couldn't take him home for 12 days. I remember the feeling of not being able to hold him, having to fight the doctors to nurse him, etc. It was so frustrating and I couldn't wait to get him home.

Take care and get some rest!

Erica
 
Congratulations Stacey! So sorry to hear of your difficult delivery and your baby's rough start. It sounds like Jacob is bouncing back just fine. You need to take the next few weeks to recover from your c-section. I'm still not moving as fast as I'd like since having one over a month ago. Going through labor and ending with a c-section is extra hard on the body. Be careful on those stairs! I was told to take granny steps - both feet on one step as you go. Take it slow. Workout fiends like us are very impatient to recover but it takes time. Good luck and enjoy your new baby!

Diana
Nora born 8/23/04
 
Stacey, I am so relieved to see you post. I can't even begin to imagine what you have been through, I am teary-eyed just reading your story. I am so happy mom and baby are better!!!!!! Thank God you went to the hospital when you did!

Yes, yes, post pictures when you can. I KNOW he is beautiful! Take care of yourself and baby! God bless you and your family!
 
Stacey,

So sorry you and Jacob had to go through such an ordeal!! Hope you have him home soon and sounds like his big sister will be a real help. God bless and welcome your sweet little one.

Sami

Edited to add: You would think the doctor or nurses would have checked his eyes out better, but none the less, hoping you get to bring him home sharply at 8:00 Saturday ;)
 
Oops - I didn't mean his sisters and couldn't edit because too much time had passed. Sorry about that! :)

By the way, I love the name Jacob - it was my grandfather's name.

Erica
 
Stacey,

Thanks for posting. I'm sorry to hear of Jacob's rough start, but it is heartening to know he is safe and healthy. Congratulations!:7
 
Stacey, thank you for sharing your story, and congratulations on your new baby boy. Wow! Your story was truly amazing! I am so happy that everything turned out fine, and in the end (after all the bad luck), you do have a beautiful baby boy, and that's what counts. I am still laughing that you went to the fair. with this being my first pregnancy, I'm not going anywhere on or around my due date. I guess bravery comes with multiple pregnancies :)
-Jen
 
Holy cow!! You and your little guy have been going through a lot!! I'm glad to hear that he's getting better and will get to go home tomorrow/Saturday. Definitely post some pics soon and keep us posted on how Jacob's doing. Congratulations to you and your family!!

Tana
EDD 10-04-04
Planned c-section 9-29-04
 
Stacey my heart goes out to you and your little guy! You've been through so much! It sounds like you've been through a very scary and emotional experience. I hope by now you've been able to take Jacob home and all is going well. I'll be looking for an update on how everything is going. You take care of yourself and your beautiful new baby.

Jacque
 

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