It's so hard not to worry, isn't it?

FiddleFit

Cathlete
Good morning!

After 2 weeks without any more bleeding, I awoke this morning at 5am to use the washroom, and found blood on the toilet paper. It's very dark brown, indicating that it's "old" blood, and therefore presumably not indicating a new emergency. And it's not very heavy, nor is it accompanied by cramping. So, I'm telling myself that this is just some of the "very large pool of blood" that is finally making it's way out of my body. The doctor said my body would expel some of it, and reabsorb the rest. Still, it's very difficult not to feel alarm. My imagination tends to run ahead, and I start to worry that it's going to turn bright red, or that the pressure in my abdomen indicating I needed to have a BM was actually the beginning of contractions, etc. I'm so relieved that I can already feel baby movements, because I got out of bed at 6:30 and made myself a coffee. I deliberately drank the coffee in order to wake the baby up and feel her move. It has done the trick, and she's now happily tickling my abdomen. What a relief.

IMO, at 12 weeks, every pregnant woman should be given an official medical doppler to have at home so she can check in on her little one whenever she feels concern. Wouldn't that help us all breathe a little easier?

Is Kristi gone on her vacation? I haven't seen her post at all this week?

Have a good day, everyone!
Sandra
 
Sandra, breathe! Boy I would be anxious too! Make sure you call your doctor just to double tripple check this is all ok, I'm sure it is. Glad she is kicking, that is a VERY good sign! Maybe you can find a doppler on ebay, LOL! Anyway have a pleasant weekend!

ETA: I found a website you can rent a real doppler, not like the crappy ones from the store, just a thought:

http://www.heartones.com/
 
Hi Julie,

Thank you for your supportive words. I'll bet you're right - I could find a doppler on ebay! Why not? They seem to sell everything else! :) No, I won't call the doctor. I know what I will be told - go home and put my feet up until my next appointment on Wednesday. If this were the start of a miscarriage they wouldn't be able to do anything about it. It will happen if it happens, regardless of how many doctors weigh in with their opinion.

I'm not overly alarmed about this bleeding as my doctor told me 2 weeks ago that she expected me to bleed for at least a week, and that the blood would turn brown. As it happened, I bled for 24 hours. I've been wondering what happened to all that blood that was supposed to be coming out! Since this blood is so brown, and obviously old, I think that's all it is. If it turns bright red and heavy, I'll start to worry.

How are you doing these days? Feeling really ill, or managing all right?

Take care,
Sandra
 

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