husband is calling my muscles unsexy... told me to stop cathe

My husband isn't wild about it either, but he understands that is too bad! As time has gone by, he seems to have figured out that I am happy when I work out and have something to show for it. I won't be really pleased until I am pretty much ripped. It may not be his favorite thing, but I wish he WOULD work out and get some muscles, and he has no interest in that. I don't let it bother me, so he better not let the fact that I get more muscular bother him! I would think that if you feel comfortable with your body, you will be happier and therefore feel sexier, which should equal a better deal for him anyway ;) Explain it to him in those terms, and the fact that you are proud of yourself (I assume you are!) and that working out/lifting is what you enjoy doing. Good luck - maybe you can compromise by doing workouts that don't build muscle bigger, but rather tone.
 
My wife is totally SEXY, muscles and all. She sexy because she looks HOT and because she cares enough to maintain her health. I've had many say she looked great for a 55 year old. I would say she looks GREAT for any age.... ;-)
 
I can relate to this somewhat. My *almost* husband likes his women "thick." Right now, in preparation for my wedding, I am slimmer than I have been in many many year. I really like myself about 5 pounds heavier, but I don't want a layer of fat covering my sexy muscles in my strapless wedding gown, so I am lifting very heavy and eating very clean right now...
 
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