Elderly Pet - Update (Sad)

dreamyjeanie

Cathlete
Many of you have corresponded with me over the situation I was going through with my older australian shepherd and I thought I give an update to help me deal with what I have been going through the past couple of days.

Well the time came this past week for us to make a decision. Picante’s blood work came back on Monday showing liver irregularities. So we got her in to see a specialist on Wednesday for an ultrasound of her liver. The ultrasound was inconclusive, no visible sign of tumor or degeneration. They sent off a urine sample to see if it would give us more info about whether the liver was indeed beginning to fail, which might be treatable with medication. By Friday she had become so weak, she needed help getting up several times. She was no longer keeping her food down and we could tell she was suffering. So even though we did not have the test results back we knew we had to make the decision. She was 14 1/2 years old and we could tell her condition was getting worse. I made an appointment at the vet for Friday afternoon. They were very accomadating and allowed us to be with her outside on a blanket in a beautiful relaxed setting until she passed which was much nicer than being in a cold, clinical room. Tears of course were shed by both, DH and myself. Even the vet commented on how it was hard to believe that it was Picante's time because she had been one of the vet's first patients when the clinic was opened. We then took her to be buried at the pet cemetary where our previous dog and cat were buried. It’s hard to believe that it had only been a week and a half since I posted the question, “ Elderly Pets, How do you know when it’s time to let go?” It was probably the slowest time of my life. She was one of best dogs I have ever known and she will be missed. Our younger dog does not understand where she went so I am giving her extra attention. (wish we could read aniaml minds). I know she is in a better place and will never have to suffer again. Thank you again to all who have been so supportive in this situation. My thoughts and prayers go out to all who have dealt with this kind of situation or who will have to face this situation with their own pets in the future. We love them so much that it is hard to let them go.

Jean
 
Jean,

My good thoughts to you in your time of loss. We lost two pets in two years...it's not easy. :(

Sparrow

My garden is filled with papayas and mangos
My life is a mixture of reggaes and tangos
Taste for the good life, I can live it no other way
- Jimmy Buffett
 
Oh, Jean! I'm so sorry to read this! Know that I'm sending you cyber hugs, thoughts, prayers, and MORE HUGS!

Let's chat SOON!!!!!!!!!!

Gayle
 
{{{Jean}}}

Picante had a wonderful life with you. And if there is a heaven for humans, there is certainly one for animals so well loved, where you will meet again.
 
Jean,

I am very sorry for your pain. My prayers and thoughts are with you as you take this time to start healing.
 
Jean- Bless you in your grief. Our pets are our children and I am hoping that I too can do the right thing for mine when the time comes.
 
I am so sorry. What a great life Picante must have had with humans who loved and cared for her so. I know how horrible this is for you and your DH. My thoughts are with both of you.

"Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so -
'Twas Heaven here with you."

Isl Paschal Richardson
 
So sorry to hear of your poor pup. She was a lucky dog to have a loving home. My heart goes out to you, your DH, and your younger pup.

Debra

Bite off more than you can chew. Then chew it---Ella Williams
 
Jean,

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Picante-know that you did what you could have and I am thinking of you and will keep you in my prayers-
Sincerely,
Lisa
 
Oh Jean my heart goes out to you. I'm struggling with the same thing right now & it's so hard to watch our babies degenerate that way..........just remember that she had a wonderful life with you, & will always be a part of you, your life & your memories.

The one thing I want to say when Cosmo goes is "I have no regrets, I gave her everything I could." I think if I can say that I'll be able to live with it. Sounds like you can say that comfortably & know that you did everything you could for Picante.
 
Big hugs to you! I think that decision is the hardest ever to make, and bless you for getting through it. I'm sure she knew she was so incredibly loved, and I hope that brings you some peace in time.

Sara
 
Thank you to all of you for your well wishes. This morning's routine was kind of weird. You expect her to be there and then you remember that she's gone. She will always have a place in our hearts and will forever be in our memories. I know that she had a good life and was truly loved.

Thanks again.

Jean
 
Oh my goodness, Jean, I am SO sorry! You know I just went through something similar & it is so hard, I know (I am crying as I write this). I hope it helps at least a little to know that so many others care and are thinking of you during this very difficult time. You gave Picante a truly wonderful life & I hope that your special memories will bring you peace & comfort in time.

(((Hugs))) to you & your family,
Kel
 
i apologize for not seeing your post until now.

i am so very sorry for your loss. when they have been with you so long, it is hard to let go, and to adjust to life without them. i will be thinking about you and sending good thoughts your way.

Picante is in a very good place now playing and eating and feeling great.
 
Jean,

I'm so sorry for your loss! It's such a difficult time, and just know that you have given her the best life possible with your love and care. It's even harder when you have multiple fur family members and they too miss the one lost.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Leslie
 

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