dresses - keep them or send them back...

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Cathlete
OK...I ordered 3 dresses as I was looking for a dress to wear to a wedding coming up at the end of September. I ordered my current size, but they are all a little small. One is very close, and that one I'm going to keep for sure. The others have 2-3 inches at the top of the zippers before they will close. They have a 90 day return policy...and I've got 30 pounds to lose. The dresses are so beautiful, but I hate to waste the money if there is no hope of them ever fitting me. IF I am committed to my rotation, and Weight Watchers, do you think it's possible to get into the dresses? If I lose 20-30 pounds, do you think I can get into them? I am not sure how many pounds = how many inches...

What do you think ladies - keep them or send them back???

Amy
 
I don't think that's good motivation, personally. I'd rather go out & shop after I know how much I have lost (inches & pounds). I think it would depress you if they didn't fit right even after losing. Send 'em back!


"you miss 100% of the shots you never take"

Debbie
 
Amy,

If it motivates you then do keep one. As most of the time you'll lose inches first. But if that zipper isn't zipping up and it happens to be the bust area that it stops before going all the way up, that's a pretty high gamble that you'd lose that much in your breasts.

But the best way to kind of have a guestimate is to look back the past week/months that you've been working out and seen how many inches you've lost. As well as how much you've worked out. If you want to lose 30 pounds, that's 15 weeks of exercising at the very less, and having a very very strict diet with no cheating. As each cheat over 250 calories, basically killed your diet for that day, and if you miss a workout, that's an extra 2-3 workouts you must do to reach your goal for missing that one. So it's a bit more complexed then saying, I have x amount of weeks and I'll lose 2 pounds a week. Most of the time that only happens when you start exercising and eating healthy and getting rid of that junk. The better in shape you already are as well as already eat healthy the longer it will take to lose 1 lb, and it won't be 1 lb a week.

As to lose one pound a week you need a 500 calorie gap. From you daily calories, usually you do this by both diet and exercise. To lose 2lbs per week, you need 1000 calorie gap in your daily calories, much harder to do, and eat healthy and not run yourself into the ground.

So really look hard at your situation, if you want to lose 30 pounds give it at least 30 weeks. So if you do end up losing two pounds a week for the first few weeks, just consider it a bonus, as those last few pounds take a lot to come off and it's mostly because by that time your eating healthy, there really isn't anything to cut out or cut back on your diet anymore. And your working to your max, and when this happens that calorie gap, slowly decreases, so you end up having to work out for two weeks to lose 1 pound instead of losing it in one week.

My athletics all run into that wall, the better shape your in and the better you eat. The more time it takes to lose a pound. It’s only when your overweight, eat horribly, and don’t workout. That you can get up, start working out and eating healthy and drop 2 lbs or more a week. But once your body gets active it, those pounds come off slower and slower. So that might make a difference, if you aren’t giving yourself enough time for that deadline, you may not make it and then have 3 dresses and none you can wear, and will still have to buy a 4th dress, for that wedding. I’ve seen women do this a ton of times. Thinking that they got 15 weeks and can lose two pounds per week and be able to slide under the fence. More times then not, they run into the fence.

HTH,

Kit
 
Sarah...I completely agree.. That is my total loss goal, and I KNOW it won't happen in September. I'm hoping by January for my 30th birthday! :)
 
Be realistic. Send them back, bank the cash. You don't know how much you will lose nor where the weight will drop from. Also, you don't know what life has in store for you over the next few months, and you might find if you kep them, that you no longer really like them that much by the time you can fit into them, and then it's too late to send them back.

Clare
 
Amy, take it from someone that has spent countless dollars on clothing that I "would eventually" fit into. Don't do it. Like someone else said, lose weight, then 1-2 weeks before the event go shopping. What you find then will be a lot more flattering & you can have it altered to match your body as closely as possible. That will be your best look.

Marla
 
Send them back. Life's too short to feel uncomfortable about clothes!

Or, at least send 2 of them back and keep the one for inspiration.

If it's a store you ordered from, can't you send them back and reorder at a later time, when you know you'll fit in them?

I did that with my wedding dress- bought a 14, ended up taking it back and getting an 8 for them to tailor.
 
They were clearance... The one dress fits, just one strap was a bit tight. That's a keeper. The other two should go back... I love them, and it's hard to see that even ordering my normal size they didn't fit. You're all right...there will be other dresses to buy when I'm at a size that I want to buy new dresses. I *did* have luck doing this type of thing with some Tommy Bahama dresses before my wedding and honeymoon, so I guess it's just tempting fate. The real goal is to get fit...not worry about fitting into some stupid dress, and that is what I need to focus on.

Thanks ladies!

Amy
 
Amy, I think that is you allow yourself to go dress shopping a week or two before the wedding should be plenty inspiration and motivation to stay on track with your fitness goals. 2 pounds a week is aggressive yet safe...you could lose up o 16 pounds in a totally 100% safe manner! Don't set your heart on it because it is aggressive but losing 10 pounds is very doable and could make a HUGE difference in the way you look and feel!

Write down healthy realistic goals and your reward is shopping for a sexy dress for your new, hot body 7 -10 days before the big day!!
 

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