Well remember we do things that leaves them out or takes up the living room like working out. So can't be too bad if they are just leaving us out of a computer game and staying home with us.
But have you ever thought of playing the game with him for some quality time? I'm seeing more and more wives get involved in gaming so they have something else to share with their husbands. I have to admit, it's pretty cool to see a husband and wife gaming team, as they work with each other to win points etc.
And for those of you wondering, my BF got me into gaming with him. We now buy two of the same game, I install it on my computer he installs it on his, and then we either play together or against. Both are a blast, thought you do have to be a bit careful against your guy. They get a little upset when you kill them two or three times in a row. But one thing I can say is that it's brought us a lot closer, I'm not just walking into the other room and kind of shaking my head, as he sits there happily and beats on the keyboard, and then I turn around and go off to do something else as it is impossible to get him away from that thing once he starts for an hour or more.
Now it's turned into our relax time together. I never knew how relaxing and stress releasing a computer game can be, until I put the face of my boss on a troll and kill him over and over. I felt soo much better after a very hard day at work, that it finally showed me why he place those games. But also on game servers like Everquest, or World of War craft, it has a lot to do with talking to people and just having fun. No gaming really involved, just a good time with friends. Well the game is open, just dosen't mean you're continiously playing it.
Good luck,
Kit