My solution for decreasing bulk
Well, after working out with medium-heavy weights for about a year (all Cathe tapes, running, spinning, and some hi-lo), I really started to become dissatisfied w/the bulky look of my body. My thighs and arms were, in my opinion, way too muscular. Now there are "skinny, cut, muscles" which look awesome, I think, and kind of bulky muscles---which I was developing.
I tried all of the conventional solutions---upping my cardio, reducing the poundage, tweaking my diet---but couldn't really get rid of the bulk. Finally, a personal trainer friend of mine gave me the following program. I've been doing it for three months, and without changing my diet beyond what is indicated, I've become considerably smaller. The muscles are smaller, more streamlined, cut, and very feminine. Somehow, I've managed to get thinner---despite my chocolate addiction.
Here goes:
1) Stop using all weights for two weeks!!! (You can do it! I was really scared to do this---but you'll survive.)
2) During this two-week no-weight time period, do one hour of cardio five times per week. Any cardio is fine.
3) Continue ab exercises as usual.
4) Do the circuit part of bodymax---but with absolutely NO WEIGHTS---two times per week (in addition to the cardio listed above.)
5) Maintain your diet as usual, but for one meal, really cut back on the carbs. I did this at lunch, having just tuna and salad (no bread, etc.)
6) Drink tons of water.
7) After two weeks, you'll see significant decrease in bulk. Now, you WILL lose strength; however, this is a tradeoff I was pleased to make considering the improvement in my look.
8) At the two week point, resume weight-bearing exercises using five pound weights. Concentrate on slow, deliberate movements and high (not fast) reps. You can move up to eight pounds if you want, but increasing the weight beyond this will probably cause the bulk to return.
I now use 5 pound weights and am very delighted with my smaller, streamlined look. I can't believe that this process has made me thinner. I realize that that's probably the result of decreased muscle mass---but right now, I'm willing to make that tradeoff. I still do Bodymax in entirity at least twice a week (no more than three times) but use weights no heavier than 5 pounds. I know this program is a difficult one to embark upon....but it worked for me. Good luck.