Colleen?
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DebbieH
Cathlete
Joining in with Deb to let you know that you have been on my mind today also. Hope you are doing okay and feel our hugs for you. Deb, glad you are doing better today also. This is the greatest place to come when one needs a lil' comforting, isn't it?
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You gave me a smile today! Thank you so much!! I am glad I went. My father was very simple and did not want a service. He just wants his ashes spread in an area up in the country which we are still waiting on. So we didn't really get a "formal" chance to say our goodbyes.
I wasn't going to go to the service but changed my mind two days before. I'm so glad I did. It gave me a bit of peace and comfort. My sister gave a wonderful speech and even DH got up and spoke some very kind words.
It's been such a struggle. There are many things I could be thankful for, but right now I am lost in the sorrow phase
Colleen
I wasn't going to go to the service but changed my mind two days before. I'm so glad I did. It gave me a bit of peace and comfort. My sister gave a wonderful speech and even DH got up and spoke some very kind words.
It's been such a struggle. There are many things I could be thankful for, but right now I am lost in the sorrow phase
Colleen
DebbieH
Cathlete
Tha's okay Collen. Take all the time you need. No one understands what YOU are going thru. I DO uderstand the hurt and sorrow though that comes with losing a loved one. STILL thinking of you and hope you can smile some more soon!
Your-Friend-In-Fitness, DebbieH (AKA "Den Mother Debbie")http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/wavey.gif[/img] If You Get The Choice To Sit It Out Or Dance...I Hope You DANCE!!!
Your-Friend-In-Fitness, DebbieH (AKA "Den Mother Debbie")http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/wavey.gif[/img] If You Get The Choice To Sit It Out Or Dance...I Hope You DANCE!!!
dmd
Cathlete
Colleen,
I'm glad you feel good about going to the service. Anything you can do to help yourself through these immediate days of sorrow is helpful.
Your grieving style is your own. I have two brothers and we all greive so differently and in our own time and pace.
Your in my thoughts and prayers...take care~deb
I'm glad you feel good about going to the service. Anything you can do to help yourself through these immediate days of sorrow is helpful.
Your grieving style is your own. I have two brothers and we all greive so differently and in our own time and pace.
Your in my thoughts and prayers...take care~deb
Thanks again for the support. I was doing ok today and suddenly at lunch after working out, the tears just started flowing. So I'm sitting here at my desk, tears and all, but knew what would bring me a smile. So my smile is peeking through the tears.
Your posts have been very comforting.
Colleen
Your posts have been very comforting.
Colleen
allwildgirl
Cathlete
Colleen, you just take however much time you need and don't let anyone tell you how you should be feeling. As has been said, everyone grieves differently and however long it takes and whatever it takes, you need to do what's best for you.
Just remember we're all here if you need someone to cry to, laugh at, rant to, whatever
Just remember we're all here if you need someone to cry to, laugh at, rant to, whatever
dmd
Cathlete
Colleen,
Sending a cyber-hug your way...it is good to cry. Wish I could do more of it. This was your father. With all that this means to you, you must take what ever time and moments to feel his passing, and to intergrate his memory into your daily living....I think, sigh, it's called accetptance. deb
Sending a cyber-hug your way...it is good to cry. Wish I could do more of it. This was your father. With all that this means to you, you must take what ever time and moments to feel his passing, and to intergrate his memory into your daily living....I think, sigh, it's called accetptance. deb