Hi Stacy,
If you are wondering how many calories you need per day to lose weight or to maintain your current weight, I suggest a full body analysis. My health club (Bally's) offers a body composition analysis, and this is what it does:
It's called bioelectrical impedance or body composition analysis (BCA). This simple method involves painlessly sending a current through a person's arm and leg to get a body composition reading. The doctor or technician can then plug that reading into a computer program along with the subject's gender, height, weight and level of physical activity. Within moments the computer is able to provide the person's body fat percentage, muscle mass, bone density, estimated metabolic range and estimated ideal body weight. BCA is now widely available at many doctor's offices. Fitness centers also offer the test, sometimes at no additional charge.
I've been told that with this information the technicion can determine how many calories you should consume. Bally's charges $30.00 for the test. I have not done it yet, but I plan to.
I lost over 30 pounds recently and I did so by having a very strict breakfast and lunch everyday, then doing whatever I wanted for dinner. Breakfast is always 1 cup of healthy cereal with skim milk, and lunch is cottage cheese and fruit, or a medium salad, or yogurt and granola, basically something small and most importantly, nourishing. I don't snack during the day (sometimes I think it will kill me!) and I workout everyday after work. Dinner is whatever sounds good! I try to cook everyday and make things as healthy as possible by cutting corners whereever I can, i.e. fat free mayo, or low fat margarine instead of butter, fat free cheese, sour cream, etc. I trim the fat on any meat I cook, I don't drink soda with dinner anymore. I grill or broil instead of fry. If I want ice cream for dessert then I skip the bread with dinner. Basically I just do my best at each meal without being too stringent. Don't deny yourself anything! If you love pizza, then eat it! Just do it once or twice a month instead of a week. I hope this helps! It worked for me. I'm 5'2" and weigh 105. I went from a size 8 to size 0-1.
Sorry I talked your ear off!