Hi Babyd,
It's been just over 4 years since I was pregnant, but I can so relate to the statement "my bodyfat has increased greatly", and wanted to share my experience. I remember being quite horrified and dismayed at how huge my arms, butt and thighs were -- they all got really thick. They looked fat, and the tissue felt like fat. Then, within a week after having my daughter, vooooom -- 20 lbs gone, and arms, butt & thighs looked much more normal. If I remember correctly, I think my thighs went down about 2-3" each during that week. So, even though I could have sworn it was all fat, a lot of it was water. I think that during that week, I sweated and peed more than I ever had in my life (sorry to be so graphic)!
You'll be surprised. Even if you do end up putting on extra fat, it's not as bad as it seems right now.
Good luck and I'll be thinking of you!
Steb