Oh, AJ, I'm so sorry to hear about all your recent troubles. You must have been terrified when your husband got sick. I know how you adore him. I'm so glad he's doing better.
I'm sorry, too, to hear about your brother being sent to Iraq. My best friend's boy, who is more like a nephew, just got back. I remember holding my breath every time I read or heard a news item about Iraq. Unfortunately, we didn't know where he was a good portion of the time, so we couldn't let out a sigh of relief until he had a chance to call or e-mail -- often weeks later.
My students and I adopted "our soldier" and one other in his unit and sent letters and gifts to help cheer them up, then he came to visit us when he got out. My kids were SO excited! To my surprise, it was truly a memorable and, for a few I believe, even a life-changing day. And it was important not only for my students, but for our "little soldier" as well.
I had no idea his visit would have such impact, on either them or him. I want you to imagine fifty ten-year-olds (twenty-five at a time) sitting quietly, almost breathless, for THREE HOURS, just listening, watching the DVD he made for them in Iraq, and politely asking questions (and actually listening to the answers). They didn't want to let him go -- even after three hours! It was almost magical. So tell this story to your brother. He might want to do something similar if the opportunity arises. It will mean more than he can ever imagine.
Take care of yourself, okay. This is a lot of stress all at once. I am glad to see you're still around, though. As you can see, you've been missed.
Shari
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