A Childs mind.....

lorihart

Cathlete
....is a crazy thing, don't ya think?
I will share todays details with you! To start this off, most people around here know that I am a Cathe addict and am proud of it.And like most women, hate the 5-10lbs that have been hanging around lately.NEVER in my unhappy moments have I ever said anything to my daugther about weight, body image or what not.In my house it is like it doesn't exist...only in my mind which she can't read yet.:)
My neice slept over this weekend and she won't be going home until tomorrow.She is 9, my daugther is 7.I own a digital scale which they have been hoping on and off all day.
I got ready to do the viper today and they decided to put their running shoes on to and join me.I thought that it could get a little funny.They tried to do so much but weren't catching on but then they would join me for the boot camp parts and the weights.
The twisted part was that they kept running back and forth from the living room to the bathroom weighing themselves and then my daughter sizes herself up and adds that she has gotten "slimmer" since we began.
So, anyone who owns a digital scale knows that they are not very accurate.They are all over the place.At that time I couldn't explain to them why they weighed more then,then when they got up int he morning and they weren't getting "fatter" and no you aren't any "slimmer".For cry'in out loud...I was barely breathing myself.
But what I wonder, is where they get these crazy ideas? I know that the media places alot of importance on being slim but they aren't old enough to realize this or are they?The 9 yr olds mom is on the adkins diet and she probably notices what her mom is aloud to eat and what she is not aloud to eat.Also my daugther as made comments to me about , why are you going for a run? Your skinny enough? Then I have to explain to her that exercise makes you healthy and gives you more energy.
I know that children are smart and that they know way to much at times, but are they really noticing society already? Do they understand more about what the world is like that what we realize? I know I didn't worry about anything when I was 7-9.Or maybe I am doing something that she notices that I don't realize? What do you ladies think? Anyone got some storied to share?
Lori
 
My daughter is 18, but I worried about this as soon as she started school. I read somewhere that girls on average in the US start being aware of weight, slenderness and so on in the 4th grade. How old is that, I have forgotten? 9? Anyway, that is pretty much how it was. They wanted to be thin, grow C-cup breasts. They worried about what they were eating. I had to do a lot of educating and deconstructing of movies, tv and commercials then. So, Lori, it sounds like your girls are right on schedule!
 
Hi Lori,

My girls are older, but I also started early with them so that they didn't grow up with an "image" concern. I'll give you an example, my older daughter Marilyn is gorgeous (was in two films), tall, thin and her weight would bounce back (she has two children)after pregnancy. The second, Jocelyn also gorgeous about 5'4" and is still having problems with her weight since she had her baby (he's 4)but is finally seeing a weight loss and definition thanks to Cathe. My youngest, Florita (clothing designer), also gorgeous, is very conscience of her health, body, etc. Has had a few setbacks here and there but has managed to maintain her weight. When they were growing up they would join my ex and I for a run, or sets of tennis, volleyball, etc.(my ex played semi-pro soccer)and they were very athletic in school. As I got older and more determined to be healthy and fit, they would say to me - Mom why are you killing yourself, you look great. Suffice it to say that a hysterectory at 38 took me to levels I never would imagine and my healthy outlook went downhill after that. My girls were the ones who helped me over the years to bounce back. My weight went up to a whopping 280 pounds!! They would tell me, come on Mom, let's go out for a walk, or go to the gym - whatever. I'm now about 15 pounds from my goal weight of 160 (i'm 5'7" and my doctor says this weight is perfect for me). So you see Lori, all that "quality time" that I spent with my girls when they were growing up paid off in the end. BTW, my second daughter Jocelyn is becoming a Cathe addict also. Lori - you're setting a great example for your girls. Remember sweetie, you daughter is growing everyday. You never know when she will be the one inviting you to go out for a run.

Take care,

Iris
:D
 
It is "allowed" not aloud.

Sorry, the dictionary in me just couldn't stop herself - and no, I am not perfect in spelling but I happen to like it when people correct me because I learn something new =).
 

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