getnfit@38
Cathlete
Hi guys,
While reading and answering a post by Aquajock (scale haters unite) I realized that I still need a lot of work in regards my relationship with food. (this board is saving me millions of $ in therapy!)
I'm thinking that if I had to put it in words, my relationship with food is at a "coping with, but ignoring the major issues" stage. Like I know we (food and I) have to live together, it fuels my body for life and life's activities, but I don't confront it (food). Like I don't really look at why I still eat some of the wasted calories that I eat. Even if I ask myself, "what's going on with you, what are you feeling right now?" as I eat a pint of ice cream, heck, I'm answering myself while still eating the ice cream!
So how do you get yourself to the place that you don't turn to food for the answer to making you feel better? I exercise daily and love it. But if I'm so focused on doing these positive things for my body, why do I then turn around and feed it something harmful (a bit dramatic but you know what I mean). If I can wake up and exercise every day without fail and love it, why can't I use food as a productive source rather than a weapon against myself?
I'm really beginning to think that losing is going to turn out to have been the easy part, and that once I reach a maintenance level, THAT will be the hardest struggle for me.
How do you form a positive relationship with food without feeling deprived? Especially when you're an "all or nothing" personality. That's why losing has been less difficult for me than a lot of people might think, because I'm "all or nothing!" So either I was going to lose, or I wasn't, no in between. So how do I figure this out with food? Never, ever eat poorly because I can't handle it? Not realistic! It's gonna happen.
I would really appreciate hearing how any of you have reached that "safe place" with food. I'm thinking I need to address this within myself now or I'll never be able to really meet my goals and then relax and feel good about it when I finally get there.
Donna
While reading and answering a post by Aquajock (scale haters unite) I realized that I still need a lot of work in regards my relationship with food. (this board is saving me millions of $ in therapy!)
I'm thinking that if I had to put it in words, my relationship with food is at a "coping with, but ignoring the major issues" stage. Like I know we (food and I) have to live together, it fuels my body for life and life's activities, but I don't confront it (food). Like I don't really look at why I still eat some of the wasted calories that I eat. Even if I ask myself, "what's going on with you, what are you feeling right now?" as I eat a pint of ice cream, heck, I'm answering myself while still eating the ice cream!
So how do you get yourself to the place that you don't turn to food for the answer to making you feel better? I exercise daily and love it. But if I'm so focused on doing these positive things for my body, why do I then turn around and feed it something harmful (a bit dramatic but you know what I mean). If I can wake up and exercise every day without fail and love it, why can't I use food as a productive source rather than a weapon against myself?
I'm really beginning to think that losing is going to turn out to have been the easy part, and that once I reach a maintenance level, THAT will be the hardest struggle for me.
How do you form a positive relationship with food without feeling deprived? Especially when you're an "all or nothing" personality. That's why losing has been less difficult for me than a lot of people might think, because I'm "all or nothing!" So either I was going to lose, or I wasn't, no in between. So how do I figure this out with food? Never, ever eat poorly because I can't handle it? Not realistic! It's gonna happen.
I would really appreciate hearing how any of you have reached that "safe place" with food. I'm thinking I need to address this within myself now or I'll never be able to really meet my goals and then relax and feel good about it when I finally get there.
Donna